One of the best experiences I’ve had with a woman was a girl I used to date a while back. One of my friends had a party that I wanted to go to, so I brought her with me. The night proceeded excellently and we had a whole lot of fun.

As the night progressed, everyone at the party was starting to get a little tipsy, including me and my girlfriend. Suddenly, she grabbed my hand and lead me upstairs in the old villa where the party was held. She checked right and left and when she saw that no one was there, she pulled me into the bathroom.

There she went down on her knees, ripped up my belt and proceeded to give me the best blowjob I’ve ever had. Why was it so great? Here are something you can learn on how to give head from “Lucy”.

• “Head” is a dish best served by surprise. Now, don’t get me wrong, giving head in the bed is also fantastic, but giving him a blowjob when he’s LEAST expecting it will feel that much more worth it. Just ask yourself, if your boyfriend bought you a diamond necklace for your birthday, that would be fantastic right? But if your boyfriend just bought you a diamond necklace on any random day, just because he loved you so much, wouldn’t that be that much more special?
• Confidence is super attractive. Another thing that Lucy did 100% right is that she had the confidence and the courage to take the bull by the horn(s) (pun intended!). Some relationships have almost hardwired roles where one partner is the dominant one and the other is the submissive one. Those are good. But I have some news for you: the best relationships are NEVER hard wired. They always keep changing. Sometimes he seduces you, sometimes you seduce him. That’s how you keep things FRESH and EXCITING month after month.
• She KNEW what she was doing. One of the best things about Lucy was that our communication about sex was so open. You know how hard it can feel to talk with someone your sleeping with about sex? Maybe it’s because you don’t want to seem like you don’t know, or maybe you don’t want to step on their toes, but whatever it is, it’s completely counter-productive. Me and Lucy had NONE of that. I taught her everything I knew and she too taught me a thing or two.

If you also want to learn how to give great head check out the guide on this blog, or even better, check out the Great Head Guide. You can thank me later!!