How To Give Head He Won't Forget

How do you make giving head fun? Well, there are certain things you can focus on, some of which I’ve already mentioned in the “how to give head guide”.

How do you have fun, doing anything?

Really it all boils down to where your focus lies. If you are always focusing on the negatives, then your experience will be a bad one. But if you instead focus on the positives, your experience becomes much more fun.

When it comes to giving head, if you have a tendency to focus on the negatives you might be thinking “Oh, when is he ever going to finish…”  or “I hate doing this, I just want to get it over with” or “This is boring”.

If that sounds similar to you, then what you can do is, when you get aware of those thoughts, is to replace them with more positive thoughts “Man, I love feeling his cock inside me, wherever it is!” or “He tastes so good!” or “I love feeling in complete control over my man”.

As with everything you do in life, there are always at least two different ways to look at something, and depending on which perspective you choose, you ARE going to have a different experience. It’s as simple as that!

How Can I Make This Fun?

Here’s a little bonus for you. I wasn’t actually going to include this at first, but I think this little nugget is so awesome that I wanted to share it with you before I pack up for the day.

Questions control our focus. If you ask yourself “Why is this so boring?” your mind will automatically throw out a thousand answers to why giving head is so boring. But this can also work in your favor: If you ask yourself “How can I make this fun?” which is a super-power-packed-question; your brain will throw out a bunch of ideas for how you can make it fun for YOU!

Maybe it’s teasing him till he almost explodes and then stopping?

Maybe it’s whispering dirty things in his ear and getting him all rallied up?

Or maybe it’s commanding him to do things in order for you to continue?

It’s up to you; how can you make it fun?

Snap. Okay, today I want to talk about something that is often overlooked but nonetheless incredibly important. Today we’re going to talk about how to give head like you want it.

Have you ever done something that you didn’t want to do?

Maybe it was your mom telling you that you have to clean your room.

Maybe it was your boss telling you that you have to finish a pile of work before you head home.

Maybe it was one of your friends that told you that you have to come to her party.

Suddenly, you feel a huge resistance to doing what they’ve requested. A knot forms in your stomach and while you might  get the ‘job’ done anyway, it has become just that: a job, and you won’t draw as much pleasure from it as you could have otherwise.

When talking about giving head, your boyfriend will most probably not tell you “you HAVE to give me a blowjob“, at least not out right. But you know that he really likes it and that he really wants it and even though you might not be thrilled to do it, you do it because you think he expects it.

By now you’re probably realizing the point I’m trying to make. Even though in this case he’s not telling you “you have to give me head”, in your head you are TELLING YOURSELF THAT YOU HAVE TO. And that is just as bad! You won’t be enjoying yourself, and that will show in how well you do!

So what’s the solution?

Really, you have three options.

First option is, you keep sucking him off without wanting to do it, which will definitely show. Worst option.

The second alternative is to stop. That’s right; stop. If you can’t at least let go of feeling like you “have to do it” then it’s actually better to stop than to keep giving him head, both for you and for him. Anything you do with a tainted energy will simply spread.

The third and best alternative, however, is to START ENJOYING YOURSELF.

How do you do it?

I’ll elaborate on that more tomorrow!