Hey Ladies (And Gentlemen),
It’s time for the second part in our series on how to give head. In the first part of the series, I talked about how the attitude is an important part of giving great head. Today I wanted to talk to you about foreplay. I think that foreplay has taken a little bit of the passenger seat over the last couple of years. At least where I live, foreplay is not considered to be as important as the “main event”.
But anyone that has ever had a session of really good foreplay knows how incredibly erotic it can be. An analogy I usually share when talking about foreplay is that the whole sexual act, from the first touch to the final climax, can be compared to a rubber band.
Foreplay is like taking that rubberband and stretching it out, adding more and more tension to it. At last when you decide to let the rubber band go, the release will be much larger than if you didn’t pull it out.
That’s really the best way to look at foreplay: As a way to get the buzz going before you actually get going.
So What Can I Do?
* Lingerie. This is not really foreplay, but I wanted to include this anyway. Sexy lingerie and generally just trying to look good will not only make him feel you’re even hotter than before, but it will get YOU feeling that you’re even hotter than before.
* Take It Slow. One of the keys to good foreplay is not to rush things. It’s important to take your time and let the tension build up. Remember, the bigger the build-up, the bigger the release.
* Two Steps Forward, One Step Back. This is *GOLDEN*. You *have* to try this out for yourself. This is really the simplest and greatest “technique” I’ve found for building tension in your sex-life. What it’s about is best described using an example:
So if you want to give him head, you might start kissing his chest, moving down towards his stomach and then his groing. But then, instead of doing the “predictable” thing – continuing towards his cock, you stop and go back to his stomache. Do this several times in different ways and it will infuriate and exhilarate him beyond your wildest dreams.
Now I know that sometimes you just don’t have the time or even the energy to have a prolonged foreplay session. That’s all fine and well. But I would like to advise you that at least once in a while, you *make* the time.
Having really great sex once in a while, the type of sex that really releases all that pent up energy, both physical, mental and even spiritual can do wonders for your personal life. You’ll feel like a new person. In the next part of the series on how to give head we’re going to get a lot more “hands-on” and I’m going to give you a bunch of practical blowjob techniques.
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