Even though I’ve already written up a big list of blowjob techniques and a guide on how to give amazing head, there is always going to be a couple of “odd ends” that don’t really fit anywhere else. That’s why I’ve gathered them all here!
These are some of my favourite blowjob tips. Enjoy!
8 Great Blowjob Tips
- Avoiding a Sore Jaw. A problem many fellatrices have when giving head, especially when they’re just starting out, is that they very quickly get a sore jaw. This soreness comes from using their jaw to create the “pressure” that feels so good for the man. But here’s the kicker: You Don’t Need To Use Your Jaw To Create The Pressure! If you just wet the palm of your hand properly and wrap it around his penis, then you can alleviate your jaw. And I bet your hand can hold a firm grip a lot longer than your mouth can.
- Foreplay Is Sexy. I think foreplay is a little bit of a lost art. Some women even think that guys don’t enjoy foreplay. But they do; I mean, how could they not? It’s in our human nature. The more you tease each other before actually starting with the sexual act, the better the sexual act will be. Enough said.
- Stimulate All of His Senses. It’s easy to get tunnel vision when giving head. Your head might be all focused on “what techniques to use” or “how to use your hands”. And that is all fine and well. But remember one thing: A man’s biggest erogenous zone is in his mind. That means that if you really want to get him going, you need to stimulate ALL of his senses, and not only his kinetic sense. Sound, Sight, Smell and even Taste are all great gateways to pleasure.
- Make Sure You Lubricate. Sexual stimulation comes from friction. This is a fact. When giving a blowjob, the pressure you create while going over his cock is what feels good for him. But something you should be aware of is that this motion also wears him out somewhat. If you go too hard, or for too long, you’ll eventually scuff his penis. To avoid those adverse effects, remember to lubricate his penis properly. It doesn’t matter if it’s saliva or if it’s professional lube; just make sure you wet it up. Everything you do after that point will feel a tonne better.
- Change Your Routine. When we find something that works in a favorable way, we usually tend to stick to it. All people are like this. We’re simply creatures of habit. But the problem with it that if you’re giving him a blowjob and you find something that seems like it’s really pushing his buttons, if you keep doing that same thing, it’s not going to feel as good as it did initially. So change up your routine and keep it interesting and fresh.
- Decide If You’re Going To Swallow Beforehand. Now I know there are some of you who are not too fond of the idea of swallowing. That is all fine and well. Some of you don’t like it but could still be convinced to do it. Whatever your attitude is towards swallowing, make sure you’ve already decided what you’re going to do before you actually give him a blowjob. If you don’t, chances are good you’re whole “routine” will fizzle out just when he’s about to climax.
- Give a Blowjob Because You Want To. The last tip I wanted to share with you today is something that I think is superimportant. Never give a blowjob because you think you “should” or because you think you “have to”. Because you’re not forced, in any way. And if you go in with that type of attitude, he’s going to know. And he’s not going to enjoy himself as much. So do both yourself and him a favor. Only do what you’re comfortable with doing!
- Don’t Use Your Teeth. The most common mistake women do is that they use their teeth too much. Most of the time, it’s not even conscious, it’s just the result of them not thinking about tucking them in. Here’s a fact: his penis doesn’t get a long that well with your sharp teeth. To remove the risk of getting scuff marks on his penis, make sure you tuck your teeth in under your lips!
If you have any tips that I haven’t included here, just leave a comment below and I’ll add them to the list!
