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Dirty Talking Is An Art Form

Written on May 5, 2009 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's

A blowjob tip I’ve shared with you many times before is the fact that a man’s biggest erogenous zone is his mind.

The more you try to get his fantasy going and try to heighten his expectations, the more he’s going to enjoy whatever comes next.

That’s the main reason why dirty talking is such a great technique for really blowing his mind.

Dirty talking in it self is an art-form; it’s nothing you can teach in just a minute or so. But with just a few tips you can start practicing on your own!

  • Take It Slowly. Don’t rush yourself. Remember, you’re not communicating because you need to get some information through; you’re communicating because you want to get him heated up, so take it slowly.
  • Let Him Know What You’re Going to Do. If you can’t come up with anything sexy to tell him; just tell him what you want to do to him with a sexy voice.
  • Fantasize and Exaggerate. Even though letting him know in advance what you’re going to do with him is a great tip, you can always take it another level and just tell him things that are sexy. Most of the times, he’s not going to expect you to do all the things you talked about, so just go wild.
  • Roleplay. This, also, is an art-form. But roleplaying is a great way to push your sexual relationship to another level. How about pretending you’re a student and he’s a teacher. Or the other way around? Be creative and find something that works for you.
  • Remember: Dirty talking is Only Going To Take Him So Far. Sure. Dirty talking can be an extreme turn on. But sooner or later, you’re going to get to a point where physical stimulation is the only thing that matters. Just go with the flow when that happens and let the words translate into action. For more tips on that, check out the article on blowjob tips.
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How to Give a Blowjob Using Teeth

Written on May 2, 2009 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's

In the last post I talked a little about why you should never use your teeth when you give a blowjob.

This is of course a truth with a modification; there’s actually a time and place for using your teeth as well, but if you’re new to giving head then don’t even worry about this as it will only confuse you.

In any case, here’s how to give a blowjob with teeth:

  • First you need to get him properly heated up before you do this. Do whatever you normally do to get him going (Inspiration: How To Give Great Head).
  • When he has properly heated up, hold your head just above the head of his penis. Put your teeth over his head and slowly open your mouth and let his penis slide into your mouth. Slowly open up your mouth more and more as you go over his penis.
  • You want this sliding to be a SLIGHT GRAZE not a FULL ON SCRAPE. Also, make sure you properly lubricate to avoid any unnecessary wearing and tearing.
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How To Give Head: Should I Swallow?

Written on April 26, 2009 by Patrick in How To Give a BJ Do's

Swallowing has been a hot topic the last decade or so. If you’re just learning how to give head, it can be a little intimidating knowing what to do with his semen.

My personal take on it is that if it’s not extraordinarily difficult for you, then do just it. Your man will enjoy being able to cum in your mouth, and you might grow to like it. It’s over before you know it.

Besides, most of you gals have probably drank things that are much fouler from a shot-glass.

If you absolutely can’t do it, then there’s no reason for despair. Just pull his cock out just when he’s about to cum and let him shoot over your chest, face or somewhere else. Just make sure you don’t stop, as that would ruin the deal.

Check out our guide for more tips on how to give great head.

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How To Give Head: Avoid a Sore Jaw

Written on April 24, 2009 by Patrick in How To Give a BJ Do's

A problem many beginners have when they’re just learning how to give head is that they clench up their jaws, which of course makes the jaw really sore after only a small period of time.

The two best tips I have for avoiding a sore jaw are the following:

1) Relax Yourself. Just remember to relax yourself and remember to take a breather once in a while. Whilst you’re taking a short break, just keep jerking him off with your hand. No one is expecting you to keep going non-stop like a robot.

2) Don’t try to apply pressure with your jaw. It’s not what it’s for. Just lube up your hand and use that instead, it will feel equally great for him.

If you just try to relax yourself and remember to start using your hands to produce the pressure, instead of your jaw, your sore jaw will disappear soon enough.

Also, if you haven’t check it out yet, make sure you read our guide on how to give great head!

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How To Give Head: Tips On Blowing His Mind Part 1

Written on March 31, 2009 by Patrick in How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's
Enthusiasm Source: Elmo Alves

Hey Ladies! (And Maybe Gentlemen As Well?)

As I promised before, I’m writing up some great new stuff for this blog. First up is a four part article series on how to give head to your man. I’ll be posting one part each week (so you’ll have something to look forward to!) and I’ll be covering all the bases; having the right attitude, how to have exciting foreplay, some mind blowing techniques to use and some extra special blowjob tips for the “endgame”.

This first part of the series is going to be about having the right attitude when giving your man a blowjob. Now, you might think “What’s that got to do with learning how to give head?”. Girl, you have no idea.

There are three main things to think about if you’re not already conscious about them:

1. Be Enthusiastic. There is NOTHING more universally attractive than a woman who enjoys whatever it is she’s doing. So whatever you’re doing, enjoy yourself and do it a hundred percent.

You probably enjoy giving him head on some level anyway. Just let go of any conflicting emotions and let your enjoyment shine through you. He will most definitely notice.

For those of you who might not immediately feel the inspiration, just focus on the positives of the situation: How you just love to hear him moan and squirm from your treatment, How great it feels to have his manhood inside your mouth, How much you enjoy being able to please your man fully.

Just focusing on the positives will take you a long way in terms of enjoyment.

2. Take Initiative. Since we’re already talking about traits that are extremely attractive, I thought I might as well throw this in: A Woman Who’s Not Afraid To Take Initiative is Most Men

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New Updates Coming Up On How To Give Good Head

Written on March 20, 2009 by Patrick in How To Give a BJ Do's

Hey people,

I know I’ve been really bad at responding to your letters, comments and generally just updating the blog. I’ve been really preoccupied with work on my end and I’ve found it difficult to find time for the blog.

But you’re all going to be glad to know that things are looking better from now on and that I’ll be updating this blog reguarly from now on to try to give you some good tips on how to give great head.

So as they say on the radio
“stay tuned for more”

Warmly,
Patrick

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Like To Learn How To Give Amazing Head?

Written on January 29, 2009 by Patrick in How To Give a BJ Do's

I’ve been blogging about giving head for a while now, and considering the fact that I have over 9000 readers each month, it’s no wonder that once in a while I get emails from women who are curious on if I can recommend them some book on oral sex and sexuality.

I’ve read a lot of books on sex, relationships and oral sex. The problem with most books is that while you can get a couple of new ideas from each book, most books are either too filled with “fluff” or they just keep rehashing the basics. That makes most books not only quite unhelpful but, even worse, boring.

That’s the main reason why I think the Ultimate Blowjob Guide is so great. Even though it goes through the basics, it doesn’t get stuck there but continues on to show you how to give really amazing head.

It also comes with a money back guarantee, which basically means that if you realize that it wasn’t what you were looking for, you get a full refund.

If you really want to learn how to give great head quickly, I suggest you go over to the Ultimate Blowjob Guide site and order your copy today.

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How to Give a Blowjob: 3 Techniques to Strengthen His Orgasm

Written on December 24, 2008 by Patrick in How To Give a BJ Do's
Make His Orgasm Stronger
Source: puppydogbites

It’s been quiet for a couple of days; I’ve simply been too busy with all the Christmas preparations. To make it up for you, I have a special treat in store for you gals who want to know how to give a proper bj.

Today I’m going to give you a couple of tips on how to strengthen his orgasm, how to make it longer and simply amplify it by several times.

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How To Give a Blowjob In Public: How To Give Road Head

Written on December 16, 2008 by Patrick in How To Give a BJ Do's
Road HeadSource: nicholas_t

Many people nowadays would like to know how to give head in different places. On the How to Give a BJ blog I’ve already written about how you can give head at the movie theaters, and today I wanted to talk about another popular location.

This article is going to be about how to give road head. For those of you who are not familiar with the terminology; road head is when you give a blowjob in a car, most often while the man is busy driving.

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How To Give a Blowjob At the Movie Theaters

Written on November 30, 2008 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give a BJ Do's

Since I recently wrote up the post on fun locations to give your man a blowjob, I’ve received some very curious questions on a particular one of the places. It’s seem that a lot of people are curious on how to give a blowjob at the movie theaters. That’s why I’ve decided to write up this post that essentially is a mini-guide to giving head at the theater.

There are a couple of different things you need to handle in order to get caught or attract too much attention to yourselves. First off, choose either a timing when no one goes to see a movie, such as late in the night or early in the day. Second of all, you can watch a movie that’s either somewhat old or simply not that good. Personally, even though I’m going to get a blowjob, I’d prefer to see a good movie, but that’s up to the two of you.

Then when you go in, simply find the most secluded place in the theater so you can give your blowjob without people seeing. Usually, the back-row is the best place to do this. Watch out for the little projector-box though, since that’s actually a room that sometimes has staff in it.

And then start watching the movie. When you feel the time is right, start stroking him a little with your hand, teasing him. Discreetly unbutton his pants and unbuckle his belt. Grab his cock and give it a couple of nice soft strokes. When you’ve properly warmed him up, push up the armrest and start giving him some exciting head. If there’s someone else in the theater, that’s usually not a problem. People are either pretty so in to the movie that they don’t notice, or they simply don’t care.

The last thing is to keep an eye out for are employee checks. They usually come at regular intervals so if they just did a check, then you can probably assume that you have a solid fifteen to thirty minutes of “free” time. Use it wisely!

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