But why is it really that men love it when you swallow his load? Is it a side-effect of watching too much porn? Is it that it feels super pleasurable for him?

I’ve found that there are several reasons why guys love it when his sexual partner swallows his load;

• It’s a Sign of His Dominance. For some men, it’s a subtle sign of your submission if you swallow his load. This isn’t anything you need to worry about; it’s not demeaning or anything. Dominance/Submission is actually something that a lot of guys are turned on by (I’m going to discuss that more extensively in a future post!)
• It’s a Massive Compliment to His Ego. The biggest reason why he loves it so much is that it’s a huge way of telling him “I accept you in every way”.

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The article talks a little bit about the different positions and mentions some of the pros and cons of each. Some of the tips

I’ve already written about, like how to give a blowjob in the movie theaters and how to deep throat, but there are still some valuable tips there on for instance rimming (or the art of eating out an ass), a topic I haven’t talked about before.

Nothing against dildos, but when they’re standing in for real men because women’s nudity is sought but men’s is taboo?

This is very true; why is it that women’s sexuality is so commercialized and accepted as something beautiful but at the same time a man’s sexuality is looked upon as something dirty?

Or maybe I’m just confused, since the opression of the female sexuality has been the case practically since the dawn of modern civilization.

But in order to get really good at giving head, you need to practice and get feedback.

And since all guys are different and enjoy different types of stimulation, that feedback is worth it’s weight in gold.

A great way to know if you’re moving in the right direction is simply to ask your man for comments.

Don’t make the questions too big, keep it simple like: “Do you prefer when I do this, or when I did that? ” or “Does this feel good?”.

Also, don’t swamp him with questions either. He wants a blowjob, not to conduct a survey. If you ask too many questions the whole thing will start to feel mechanic.

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While he might need to be in the mood to have sex, to get a blowjob he just needs to be breathing.

Use that fact and give him a blowjob when he’s least expecting it. Maybe just as he’s walking through the door after a long day at work or just after dinner when you “accidentally” drop something under the dinner tabe.

Use your imagination!

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Basically, it’s a day where you give your man a steak and a blowjob; the two things a stereotype man loves the most.

Now, if you missed the official steak and  blowjob day, there’s no need to sweat it; just pick a day and surprise your man. He’ll definitely appreciate it.

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While both chlamydia and HIV can be transmitted through oral sex, the risk of them doing so are very low compared to vaginal sex.

The diseases that you “need” to worry about are genital herpes, gonorrhea and genital warts.

They’ve shown that swallowing semen slightly elevates the risk of contracting an STD, but it’s not something you need to worry about. Swallowing semen is however completely safe if your man is healthy.

If you have a single steady partner then you probably don’t need to worry about this; but just to be on the safe side, I suggest you both go and get checked out before doing anything.

• The Classic 69. In this positions you’ll lie on your as your partner stands on all four on top of you with his cock over your head and his head over your genitals. Great double action.
• The Star 69. Similar to the Classic 69, but instead of just laying flat on the bed, you push your legs back so your man can get full access to the whole area. If your man is feeling bold, he can do this as well.
• Standing Up. Another good classic is when the man is standing up and you’re on your knees while giving him a blowjob. This is good for two reasons; primarily, he’ll be able to watch, but also the standing up increases the blood flow to his genitals.
• The Dangler. A great blowjob position to use if you’re trying to learn how to deep throat. You lie on the bed with your head just dangling outside the bed Your man then stands right in front of your face and thrusts himself into you.
• You Kneeling, Him Sitting. He Sits down on a chair while you kneel down on the floor and start giving him a blowjob. This is a great blowjob positions since he can just sit back and enjoy the ride.

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The more you try to get his fantasy going and try to heighten his expectations, the more he’s going to enjoy whatever comes next.

That’s the main reason why dirty talking is such a great technique for really blowing his mind.

Dirty talking in it self is an art-form; it’s nothing you can teach in just a minute or so. But with just a few tips you can start practicing on your own!

• Take It Slowly. Don’t rush yourself. Remember, you’re not communicating because you need to get some information through; you’re communicating because you want to get him heated up, so take it slowly.
• Let Him Know What You’re Going to Do. If you can’t come up with anything sexy to tell him; just tell him what you want to do to him with a sexy voice.
• Fantasize and Exaggerate. Even though letting him know in advance what you’re going to do with him is a great tip, you can always take it another level and just tell him things that are sexy. Most of the times, he’s not going to expect you to do all the things you talked about, so just go wild.
• Roleplay. This, also, is an art-form. But roleplaying is a great way to push your sexual relationship to another level. How about pretending you’re a student and he’s a teacher. Or the other way around? Be creative and find something that works for you.
• Remember: Dirty talking is Only Going To Take Him So Far. Sure. Dirty talking can be an extreme turn on. But sooner or later, you’re going to get to a point where physical stimulation is the only thing that matters. Just go with the flow when that happens and let the words translate into action. For more tips on that, check out the article on blowjob tips.

A problem with deep throating has been that people start trying to do it too early on. While it should be considered to be an “advanced” technique, some young females feel the pressure to perform and sort of mentally burn them selves out.

If you’re new to oral sex and haven’t really learned how to give a blowjob yet, then I suggest you check out our blowjob guide, the list of blowjob tips and blowjob techniques first as they contain a whole bunch of great info for you to get started with.

In this guide I’m going to go through the A to Z of how to deep throat.

How To Deep Throat: Learning Not To Gag

The biggest part of learning how to deep throat is learning not to gag. While this may seem easy, it’s really a skill that needs to be worked on before you actually become good at it.

The main part of unlearning the gag-reflex is to apply will power. If you just keep working on it then eventually it will let go. But that’s not very helpful; so I’m going to share with you two of my favourite tips on getting over the gag reflex.

1. Start Swallowing When You Feel The Gag Reflex. When I say “start swallowing” what I mean is, start making the same motions as you would when you’re about to swallow something. This will alleviate a part of the gag-sensation.
2. Pull Him In With Your Tongue. The second tip I wanted to share with you is to pull him in with your tongue. specifically, when you have him inside you and you feel you can’t take him in further, just extend your tongue and pretend like you’re pulling him further in with your tongue. This is good for two reasons; it will get into your head (power of attraction!) but also, the movement actually opens up your throat and will make it easier for him to slide into your throat.
3. Take It Slowly. Don’t rush yourself; learning how to deep throat takes time. The biggest mistake most women do when it comes to deep throating is that they rush themselves into it. Some have seen pornographic videos or have boyfriends that are overly eager and get persuaded that “that’s how it’s done”. It’s not. Don’t aim to perform like a pornstar the first, second or even the tenth time you’re deep throating; you’ll just end up hurting yourself!

This is a work in project. I’ll be adding more and more stuff as we go. If you’re looking for some general info, check out the guide on how to give a blowjob.