Deep throating is when you take in all of your man into your mouth. Since the an average penis is about 15 cm and the oral cavity is only about 10 cm, you take him into your throat instead.
A problem with deep throating has been that people start trying to do it too early on. While it should be considered to be an “advanced” technique, some young females feel the pressure to perform and sort of mentally burn them selves out.
If you’re new to oral sex and haven’t really learned how to give a blowjob yet, then I suggest you check out our blowjob guide, the list of blowjob tips and blowjob techniques first as they contain a whole bunch of great info for you to get started with.
In this guide I’m going to go through the A to Z of how to deep throat.
How To Deep Throat: Learning Not To Gag
The biggest part of learning how to deep throat is learning not to gag. While this may seem easy, it’s really a skill that needs to be worked on before you actually become good at it.
The main part of unlearning the gag-reflex is to apply will power. If you just keep working on it then eventually it will let go. But that’s not very helpful; so I’m going to share with you two of my favourite tips on getting over the gag reflex.
- Start Swallowing When You Feel The Gag Reflex. When I say “start swallowing” what I mean is, start making the same motions as you would when you’re about to swallow something. This will alleviate a part of the gag-sensation.
- Pull Him In With Your Tongue. The second tip I wanted to share with you is to pull him in with your tongue. specifically, when you have him inside you and you feel you can’t take him in further, just extend your tongue and pretend like you’re pulling him further in with your tongue. This is good for two reasons; it will get into your head (power of attraction!) but also, the movement actually opens up your throat and will make it easier for him to slide into your throat.
- Take It Slowly. Don’t rush yourself; learning how to deep throat takes time. The biggest mistake most women do when it comes to deep throating is that they rush themselves into it. Some have seen pornographic videos or have boyfriends that are overly eager and get persuaded that “that’s how it’s done”. It’s not. Don’t aim to perform like a pornstar the first, second or even the tenth time you’re deep throating; you’ll just end up hurting yourself!
This is a work in project. I’ll be adding more and more stuff as we go. If you’re looking for some general info, check out the guide on how to give a blowjob.
