There are a lot of you that still are for some reason looking for more information on how to give a blowjob that will make your man explode with pleasure.
That is exactly why I’ve written this article. I’ve already written a great introductory article on how to give great head and list of great techniques for a blowjob but in this article I wanted to focus on some concerns you might have when you’re just starting out.
What If I Don’t Like The Taste Or Smell?
Just like women, men will both taste and smell a little more if they haven’t showered in a while. So if you’re sensitive to that kind of thing, you could always ask your man to clean up a little before you get jiggy with it.
What Do I Do With His Sperm?
The next common concern a lot of “newbies” have is that they’re almost a little worried about what they’re supposed to do with the semen.
If you’ve never tasted semen, it’s got a pretty neutral but at the same time a very distinct, salty taste. Most women that don’t like semen don’t actually complain about the taste but rather about the consistency of it. Depending on what type of diet your man follows and how much fluids he takes in on a daily basis, his load can be more or less viscous. Here’s a little information on swallowing semen.
Beginner’s Guide to Giving a Blowjob
I know a lot of you are new to this, so I’m going to give you a basic run through on how to give a blowjob. If you want more detailed info, check out the guide on how to give head, as well as the list of blowjob tips and techniques.
- Study up. Reading this guide as well as some of the other guides on this site will give you a better understanding of what to do, and more importantly How to do it. It will help you smooth out the whole process as well as give you some guidance. If nothing else, it’s a great source of inspiration…
- Get Comfortable. A sore neck is never a turn on. When you’re going to give him head, make sure you find a good position for you both. The best positions for giving head include
- Him lying on his back, you lying in between his legs. This is a good position as he’ll be able to relax completely, as well as letting you control the package all for yourself.
- Him standing up / sitting in a chair, you on your knees. Even though he might not be able to relax as much, this is a great position for him since he’ll be able to to watch you while you work (guy’s love to watch).
- Start Him Up. Sometimes just “jumping” on him can be nice. But for a better effect, I suggest you start out slowly and let him enjoy himself. It’s like warming up before going out to run. Of course you can start running right away, but it’s going to feel much better if you start slowly. Kiss him, lick him and tug him all around his body, get the juices flowing.
- Open Your Mouth. Slide your lips over you teeth to avoid painful contact. Make sure you lubricate his cock properly with your saliva as it will feel great for him, and it will alleviate any type of scuffing later on when you get your hands dirty. Slide over his cock.
- Be Imaginative. Giving a great blowjob is more than just going up and down repeatedly. Experiment a little; there are a lot of different ways to stimulate your man. Kiss, lick, tug, pull, bite (cautiously though); try it all out. Just remember to keep checking his body language for signs to show if he’s enjoying himself or not.
- Hands On. By gripping his *lubed up* (remeber this, otherwise you’ll end up wearing him out) manhood with your hand, you can give him loads more pleasure and take some of the weight off of your mouth. Wrap it around his cock and let your hand follow your mouth. Your mouth can now focus on more important things, the head of his penis for instance.
- Finish the Job. Ultimately, it’s your decision whether or not you want to swallow his load. Some women do it without even thinking about it, others cringe at the mere thought. In the end, just do what you’re most comfortable with. The amount is small, only a teaspoon or so, so it shouldn’t be that big of a problem. Whatever you do, just don’t stop midway.
Deep-Throating, What’s That?
For those of you who are new to this, deep-throating is when you take your man’s cock all the way into your mouth. It is called deep throating because anatomically speaking, unless your man is cursed in that department, you can’t fit the whole length of his penis in just your mouth but you will need to open up your throat and allow him to enter there.
It sounds more dramatic than it is, but if oral sex is new to you, I suggest you ignore deep-throating for now and just focus on doing all of the other things that make a blowjob great.
