In the last post I talked a little about why you should never use your teeth when you give a blowjob.
This is of course a truth with a modification; there’s actually a time and place for using your teeth as well, but if you’re new to giving head then don’t even worry about this as it will only confuse you.
In any case, here’s how to give a blowjob with teeth:
- First you need to get him properly heated up before you do this. Do whatever you normally do to get him going (Inspiration: How To Give Great Head).
- When he has properly heated up, hold your head just above the head of his penis. Put your teeth over his head and slowly open your mouth and let his penis slide into your mouth. Slowly open up your mouth more and more as you go over his penis.
- You want this sliding to be a SLIGHT GRAZE not a FULL ON SCRAPE. Also, make sure you properly lubricate to avoid any unnecessary wearing and tearing.
A mistake that I keep hammering on over and over again is the fact that you should never use your teeth during a blowjob. His penis is really sensitive and with the repetetive motion that you do during a blowjob, even the smallest graze quickly becomes a source of great discomfort.
The easiest way to rid yourself of this problem is just to tuck your teeth in under your lips. The problem is not to tuck them in, but rather to remember to keep them there during the whole blowjob. It’s easy to forget after a few moments why you’re doing it, but as with everything practice gives experience.
And I know some of you are going “But I’ve heard some guys like it when you use your teeth”. That’s a completely different thing; using your teeth as a conscious blowjob technique is definitely not the same thing as unconsciously grinding over his cock.
But more on this in the next post.
Another thing that women usually forget, especially those who are just learning how to give head, is that his balls are EXTREMELY sensitive.
Now, this can be either good news or bad news. It’s good news if you decide to play with them as well. They like being kissed, licked and played with. They enjoy the stimulation, and he’ll enjoy it as well. There are some great blowjob techniques you can use for this.
It’s bad news if you forget the fact that they’re *super sensitive* and accidentally crush them with your elbow or something.
It’s a typical rookie mistake, so make sure you dont do it when you’re trying to give the guy good head.
The biggest rookie mistake I’ve encountered is using teeth. I know it’s easy to forget it, but you’re holding one of his most prised possessions in your mouth; try to be careful! You’ll never learn how to give great head if you don’t stop doing this.
It’s an easy fix really: Just tuck your teeth in under your lips, and you’re done.
The hard part is to remember it; it’s easy to forget to tuck the lips in, and even if it’s just for a second, he’ll feel it. So keep reminding yourself to keep the old swords sheathed.
Also, check out our mini-guide on how to give head for more blowjob tips!
Swallowing has been a hot topic the last decade or so. If you’re just learning how to give head, it can be a little intimidating knowing what to do with his semen.
My personal take on it is that if it’s not extraordinarily difficult for you, then do just it. Your man will enjoy being able to cum in your mouth, and you might grow to like it. It’s over before you know it.
Besides, most of you gals have probably drank things that are much fouler from a shot-glass.
If you absolutely can’t do it, then there’s no reason for despair. Just pull his cock out just when he’s about to cum and let him shoot over your chest, face or somewhere else. Just make sure you don’t stop, as that would ruin the deal.
Check out our guide for more tips on how to give great head.
One question that I get a lot from my readers on how to give head is that “How Can I Know What He’s Thinking?”.
It’s an easy question to answer.
You can’t.
Until mind-reading becomes a skill that anyone can learn, you can’t be absolutely certain what he thinks.
But he’s probably sending you some clues to whether he’s enjoying himself or not:
Likes:
- Clenching hist fist.
- Moaning
- His balls get tucked really closely in his groin
- Thrusting himself towards your mouth
- Proposing marriage (I joke, I joke)
Other than that, if you really want to know what he thinks, I suggest you just ask him. He might not tell you exactly what you’re doing right and wrong or recite an essay on how to give great head, but you’ll probably know if you’re at least going in the right direction.
A problem many beginners have when they’re just learning how to give head is that they clench up their jaws, which of course makes the jaw really sore after only a small period of time.
The two best tips I have for avoiding a sore jaw are the following:
1) Relax Yourself. Just remember to relax yourself and remember to take a breather once in a while. Whilst you’re taking a short break, just keep jerking him off with your hand. No one is expecting you to keep going non-stop like a robot.
2) Don’t try to apply pressure with your jaw. It’s not what it’s for. Just lube up your hand and use that instead, it will feel equally great for him.
If you just try to relax yourself and remember to start using your hands to produce the pressure, instead of your jaw, your sore jaw will disappear soon enough.
Also, if you haven’t check it out yet, make sure you read our guide on how to give great head!
I know that when you’re trying to learn how to give head, you’re really just looking for the “techniques“; you’re so hungry for the special *super* blowjob technique that will blow his mind.
While there are a bunch blowjob techniques that do feel amazing for him, they’re rendered useless if you don’t pay attention to the details. One of these details is foreplay.
If you tease him properly before you actually start giving him head, both you and he will end up enjoying yourselves a tonne more.
*Foreplay Tip*: Kiss, Bite, Tug, Pull and Lick every part of his body except for his cock and his balls. If you do this enough, he’ll go crazy and almost beg you to go down on him.
The most important thing to remember, especially if you’re just starting to learn how to give great head, is to keep things interesting. Especially when you’re new to something, as soon as you find something that works you’re prone to wanting to repeat the same thing over and over again.
But don’t do that.
Even the greatest sensations fade over time.
Something that felt amazing for him the first time, will surely not feel as great if you keep doing it for ten minutes straight.
This is just how we work as human beings; what gets repeated gets boring.
So remember to vary yourself all the time while you’re learning how to give great head.
Change your technique.
Vary your position.
Speed it up.
Slow it down.
Keep it fresh!
One thing that some women are a little bit stuck up on when they’re trying to learn how to give head is that some of them have gotten the idea that blowjobs are “derogatory towards women”.
Are they really?
I think that they’re definitely not. When I was talking to some of my female friends about this topic, one of them told me something that I found very interesting. She said “I have the most precious part of his body right between my teeth. I control both his penis and whatever pleasure I decide to give him. In a way, he’s my bitch now”.
While she did express herself a bit powerfully, it really does ring true. It’s not he that has all the power. It’s YOU that have all the power! So don’t let that stop you if you want to learn how to give great head.