How To Give Head Like You Mean It (Part III)

How do you make giving head fun? Well, there are certain things you can focus on, some of which I’ve already mentioned in the “how to give head guide”.

How do you have fun, doing anything?

Really it all boils down to where your focus lies. If you are always focusing on the negatives, then your experience will be a bad one. But if you instead focus on the positives, your experience becomes much more fun.

When it comes to giving head, if you have a tendency to focus on the negatives you might be thinking “Oh, when is he ever going to finish…”  or “I hate doing this, I just want to get it over with” or “This is boring”.

If that sounds similar to you, then what you can do is, when you get aware of those thoughts, is to replace them with more positive thoughts “Man, I love feeling his cock inside me, wherever it is!” or “He tastes so good!” or “I love feeling in complete control over my man”.

As with everything you do in life, there are always at least two different ways to look at something, and depending on which perspective you choose, you ARE going to have a different experience. It’s as simple as that!

How Can I Make This Fun?

Here’s a little bonus for you. I wasn’t actually going to include this at first, but I think this little nugget is so awesome that I wanted to share it with you before I pack up for the day.

Questions control our focus. If you ask yourself “Why is this so boring?” your mind will automatically throw out a thousand answers to why giving head is so boring. But this can also work in your favor: If you ask yourself “How can I make this fun?” which is a super-power-packed-question; your brain will throw out a bunch of ideas for how you can make it fun for YOU!

Maybe it’s teasing him till he almost explodes and then stopping?

Maybe it’s whispering dirty things in his ear and getting him all rallied up?

Or maybe it’s commanding him to do things in order for you to continue?

It’s up to you; how can you make it fun?

How To Give Head Like You Mean It (Part II)

Yesterday I talked a little bit about why it’s so important NOT to do something if you can’t do it fully. Simply put, doing something with a negative or resisting energy (to put it in hippie-terminology!) taints everything it touches. That includes giving head!

So how do give head like you’re enjoying it? Easiest way and most consistent way, believe it or not, is to enjoy giving head.

“But Patrick, what if I don’t?”, I hear you moan.

We can fix that!

In the end, when you boil it down, enjoying something consists of three different parts, all which are in your control.

  1. Remove any thing that stops you from enjoying yourself. If your man has a smelly dick or way too much hair down there, tell him so. Most guys have no problem cleaning up down there if you make them realize it bothers you. Besides, they’re getting a big return on it!
  2. Bring everything you’ve got to the table. What we invest in, we enjoy. If you bring 100% of yourself to the table, if you invest a hundred percent of your attention in what you are doing, you are almost BOUND to enjoy yourself sooner or later. Once you really realize this, it can change your life.
  3. Focus on what you like about giving head. Don’t you love the way his cock fills your mouth? Or how exciting it is to be in total control of his most prized possession? Or how you can make him twist and turn and moan with a flick of your tongue? The last but definitely not least part of enjoying yourself is to start focusing on what you like about it rather than what you don’t like. If you focus on the negatives, then it becomes work. If you look at the positives, it becomes play.

In the next part of this series, I’m going to give you some more blowjob tips on how you can make giving head more fun for YOURSELF!