Snap. Okay, today I want to talk about something that is often overlooked but nonetheless incredibly important. Today we’re going to talk about how to give head like you want it.
Have you ever done something that you didn’t want to do?
Maybe it was your mom telling you that you have to clean your room.
Maybe it was your boss telling you that you have to finish a pile of work before you head home.
Maybe it was one of your friends that told you that you have to come to her party.
Suddenly, you feel a huge resistance to doing what they’ve requested. A knot forms in your stomach and while you might get the ‘job’ done anyway, it has become just that: a job, and you won’t draw as much pleasure from it as you could have otherwise.
When talking about giving head, your boyfriend will most probably not tell you “you HAVE to give me a blowjob“, at least not out right. But you know that he really likes it and that he really wants it and even though you might not be thrilled to do it, you do it because you think he expects it.
By now you’re probably realizing the point I’m trying to make. Even though in this case he’s not telling you “you have to give me head”, in your head you are TELLING YOURSELF THAT YOU HAVE TO. And that is just as bad! You won’t be enjoying yourself, and that will show in how well you do!
So what’s the solution?
Really, you have three options.
First option is, you keep sucking him off without wanting to do it, which will definitely show. Worst option.
The second alternative is to stop. That’s right; stop. If you can’t at least let go of feeling like you “have to do it” then it’s actually better to stop than to keep giving him head, both for you and for him. Anything you do with a tainted energy will simply spread.
The third and best alternative, however, is to START ENJOYING YOURSELF.
How do you do it?
I’ll elaborate on that more tomorrow!
