Today I’m going to give you a quick tip that can really SUPER-CHARGE your performance in bed. It’s one of those tips that will make you feel really appreciated after you’ve used it, simply because he’s going to be SQUIRMING with pleasure. Don’t be surprised if he BEGS you not to stop!
So here’s the tip: After you’ve heated him up properly and you’ve already started giving him head, use your index finger and middle finger to find his PERINEUM. His perineum is a soft, fleshy part underneath his testicles, right between his ball sack and his anus.
Once you find it start massaging it FIRMLY while you keep giving him head. A fair warning: Don’t be surprised if this sends him completely OVER THE TOP… It’s ridiculously effective!
One of the best experiences I’ve had with a woman was a girl I used to date a while back. One of my friends had a party that I wanted to go to, so I brought her with me. The night proceeded excellently and we had a whole lot of fun.
As the night progressed, everyone at the party was starting to get a little tipsy, including me and my girlfriend. Suddenly, she grabbed my hand and lead me upstairs in the old villa where the party was held. She checked right and left and when she saw that no one was there, she pulled me into the bathroom.
There she went down on her knees, ripped up my belt and proceeded to give me the best blowjob I’ve ever had. Why was it so great? Here are something you can learn on how to give head from “Lucy”.
- “Head” is a dish best served by surprise. Now, don’t get me wrong, giving head in the bed is also fantastic, but giving him a blowjob when he’s LEAST expecting it will feel that much more worth it. Just ask yourself, if your boyfriend bought you a diamond necklace for your birthday, that would be fantastic right? But if your boyfriend just bought you a diamond necklace on any random day, just because he loved you so much, wouldn’t that be that much more special?
- Confidence is super attractive. Another thing that Lucy did 100% right is that she had the confidence and the courage to take the bull by the horn(s) (pun intended!). Some relationships have almost hardwired roles where one partner is the dominant one and the other is the submissive one. Those are good. But I have some news for you: the best relationships are NEVER hard wired. They always keep changing. Sometimes he seduces you, sometimes you seduce him. That’s how you keep things FRESH and EXCITING month after month.
- She KNEW what she was doing. One of the best things about Lucy was that our communication about sex was so open. You know how hard it can feel to talk with someone your sleeping with about sex? Maybe it’s because you don’t want to seem like you don’t know, or maybe you don’t want to step on their toes, but whatever it is, it’s completely counter-productive. Me and Lucy had NONE of that. I taught her everything I knew and she too taught me a thing or two.
If you also want to learn how to give great head check out the guide on this blog, or even better, check out the Great Head Guide. You can thank me later!!
While oral sex and blowjobs are much safer than both vaginal and anal sex and the fact that most STDs are either unable or have trouble transmitting through oral sex, it’s still possible to contract an STD (sexually transmitted disease) , STI (sexually transmitted infection) or VD (veneral disease).
While both chlamydia and HIV can be transmitted through oral sex, the risk of them doing so are very low compared to vaginal sex.
The diseases that you “need” to worry about are genital herpes, gonorrhea and genital warts.
They’ve shown that swallowing semen slightly elevates the risk of contracting an STD, but it’s not something you need to worry about. Swallowing semen is however completely safe if your man is healthy.
If you have a single steady partner then you probably don’t need to worry about this; but just to be on the safe side, I suggest you both go and get checked out before doing anything.
