A blowjob tip I’ve shared with you many times before is the fact that a man’s biggest erogenous zone is his mind.
The more you try to get his fantasy going and try to heighten his expectations, the more he’s going to enjoy whatever comes next.
That’s the main reason why dirty talking is such a great technique for really blowing his mind.
Dirty talking in it self is an art-form; it’s nothing you can teach in just a minute or so. But with just a few tips you can start practicing on your own!
- Take It Slowly. Don’t rush yourself. Remember, you’re not communicating because you need to get some information through; you’re communicating because you want to get him heated up, so take it slowly.
- Let Him Know What You’re Going to Do. If you can’t come up with anything sexy to tell him; just tell him what you want to do to him with a sexy voice.
- Fantasize and Exaggerate. Even though letting him know in advance what you’re going to do with him is a great tip, you can always take it another level and just tell him things that are sexy. Most of the times, he’s not going to expect you to do all the things you talked about, so just go wild.
- Roleplay. This, also, is an art-form. But roleplaying is a great way to push your sexual relationship to another level. How about pretending you’re a student and he’s a teacher. Or the other way around? Be creative and find something that works for you.
- Remember: Dirty talking is Only Going To Take Him So Far. Sure. Dirty talking can be an extreme turn on. But sooner or later, you’re going to get to a point where physical stimulation is the only thing that matters. Just go with the flow when that happens and let the words translate into action. For more tips on that, check out the article on blowjob tips.
Something that I didn’t mention in my beginners guide on how to give a blowjob was that you should be aware that his balls are super sensitive.
I’m saying this because when you’re lying there, at least in the beginning, you’re going to be fidgeting and turning around trying to find the best position to blow his mind.
In such a situation, it’s easy to misplace an elbow or to support your body with one of your hands in the wrong place.
Now, he’ll definitely let you know that something is wrong so you don’t have to worry that he’ll keep it to himself. But pain streaming out of his testicular area can be a major turn off for most men.
It’s not that they don’t want to be sexual mentally, it’s just that the pain pulsating through their groin is ten times as “loud” as everything else.
In the last post I talked a little about why you should never use your teeth when you give a blowjob.
This is of course a truth with a modification; there’s actually a time and place for using your teeth as well, but if you’re new to giving head then don’t even worry about this as it will only confuse you.
In any case, here’s how to give a blowjob with teeth:
- First you need to get him properly heated up before you do this. Do whatever you normally do to get him going (Inspiration: How To Give Great Head).
- When he has properly heated up, hold your head just above the head of his penis. Put your teeth over his head and slowly open your mouth and let his penis slide into your mouth. Slowly open up your mouth more and more as you go over his penis.
- You want this sliding to be a SLIGHT GRAZE not a FULL ON SCRAPE. Also, make sure you properly lubricate to avoid any unnecessary wearing and tearing.
A mistake that I keep hammering on over and over again is the fact that you should never use your teeth during a blowjob. His penis is really sensitive and with the repetetive motion that you do during a blowjob, even the smallest graze quickly becomes a source of great discomfort.
The easiest way to rid yourself of this problem is just to tuck your teeth in under your lips. The problem is not to tuck them in, but rather to remember to keep them there during the whole blowjob. It’s easy to forget after a few moments why you’re doing it, but as with everything practice gives experience.
And I know some of you are going “But I’ve heard some guys like it when you use your teeth”. That’s a completely different thing; using your teeth as a conscious blowjob technique is definitely not the same thing as unconsciously grinding over his cock.
But more on this in the next post.
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April 29, 2009 by
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Semen. Sperm. The great white juice. It’s probably one of the most talked about topics since oral sex became popular in the western world. Swallow, don’t swallow, what are you supposed to do with it? Is swallowing semen derogatory towards women? Is swallowing sperm dangerous?
There are a whole heap of questions that revolve around this little white fluid. I’ve already talked a little about swallowing semen in my article on blowjob tips, but I thought I’d address all of your other questions here.
If you have any other questions, just send me a comment and I’ll go through them in a future post or article.
Is Semen Safe?
Semen doesn’t carry any diseases per say, and as long as your man is not carrying any sexually transmitted diseases then swallowing his load is completely safe. Semen does however contain a whole lot of different nutrients, so if you’re super allergic to something specifically then you might want to be on your guard if it’s the first time you’re swallowing his load.
If you’re unsure to whether or not your man is carrying any STDs, the safest thing to do is either NOT to swallow his load, or to swallow it quickly. You’re posed the biggest risk if you let the semen just stay in your mouth. This is because when you suck his cock it will create tiny (unnoticable) abrasions in your mouth cavity that increase the risk of catching something.
