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Blowjob Tips

Written on April 27, 2009 by Patrick in

Even though I’ve already written up a big list of blowjob techniques and a guide on how to give amazing head, there is always going to be a couple of “odd ends” that don’t really fit anywhere else. That’s why I’ve gathered them all here!

These are some of my favourite blowjob tips. Enjoy!

8 Great Blowjob Tips

  1. Avoiding a Sore Jaw. A problem many fellatrices have when giving head, especially when they’re just starting out, is that they very quickly get a sore jaw. This soreness comes from using their jaw to create the “pressure” that feels so good for the man. But here’s the kicker: You Don’t Need To Use Your Jaw To Create The Pressure! If you just wet the palm of your hand properly and wrap it around his penis, then you can alleviate your jaw. And I bet your hand can hold a firm grip a lot longer than your mouth can.
  2. Foreplay Is Sexy. I think foreplay is a little bit of a lost art. Some women even think that guys don’t enjoy foreplay. But they do; I mean, how could they not? It’s in our human nature. The more you tease each other before actually starting with the sexual act, the better the sexual act will be. Enough said.
  3. Stimulate All of His Senses. It’s easy to get tunnel vision when giving head. Your head might be all focused on “what techniques to use” or “how to use your hands”. And that is all fine and well. But remember one thing: A man’s biggest erogenous zone is in his mind. That means that if you really want to get him going, you need to stimulate ALL of his senses, and not only his kinetic sense. Sound, Sight, Smell and even Taste are all great gateways to pleasure.
  4. Make Sure You Lubricate. Sexual stimulation comes from friction. This is a fact. When giving a blowjob, the pressure you create while going over his cock is what feels good for him. But something you should be aware of is that this motion also wears him out somewhat. If you go too hard, or for too long, you’ll eventually scuff his penis. To avoid those adverse effects, remember to lubricate his penis properly. It doesn’t matter if it’s saliva or if it’s professional lube; just make sure you wet it up. Everything you do after that point will feel a tonne better.
  5. Change Your Routine. When we find something that works in a favorable way, we usually tend to stick to it. All people are like this. We’re simply creatures of habit. But the problem with it that if you’re giving him a blowjob and you find something that seems like it’s really pushing his buttons, if you keep doing that same thing, it’s not going to feel as good as it did initially. So change up your routine and keep it interesting and fresh.
  6. Decide If You’re Going To Swallow Beforehand. Now I know there are some of you who are not too fond of the idea of swallowing. That is all fine and well. Some of you don’t like it but could still be convinced to do it. Whatever your attitude is towards swallowing, make sure you’ve already decided what you’re going to do before you actually give him a blowjob. If you don’t, chances are good you’re whole “routine” will fizzle out just when he’s about to climax.
  7. Give a Blowjob Because You Want To. The last tip I wanted to share with you today is something that I think is superimportant. Never give a blowjob because you think you “should” or because you think you “have to”. Because you’re not forced, in any way. And if you go in with that type of attitude, he’s going to know. And he’s not going to enjoy himself as much. So do both yourself and him a favor. Only do what you’re comfortable with doing!
  8. Don’t Use Your Teeth. The most common mistake women do is that they use their teeth too much. Most of the time, it’s not even conscious, it’s just the result of them not thinking about tucking them in. Here’s a fact: his penis doesn’t get a long that well with your sharp teeth. To remove the risk of getting scuff marks on his penis, make sure you tuck your teeth in under your lips!

If you have any tips that I haven’t included here, just leave a comment below and I’ll add them to the list!

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How To Give Head

Written on April 26, 2009 by Patrick in

If you’re reading this then chances are you’re looking for information on how to give head. If that’s the case, then you should continue reading, because that’s exactly what this guide is about. Let’s jump right into it.

Many women think that giving a head is only about what “techniques” you use. And that’s natural of course; it’s much easier to explain to someone What to do rather than How to do it. Let me explain.

The brain is a mans biggest erogenous zone. No, I’m not bullshitting you. While your technique will definitely play a big role in what you’re doing; if you want to learn how to give great head, you also need to learn how to stimulate his mind.

There are a couple of things that you should keep in mind, but since I know you’re just waiting for the “fantastic blowjob techniques“, I’ll just give you the best tip I can give you: Enjoy Yourself.

There’s NOTHING more universally attractive than a woman who’s enjoying herself. This, of course, applies to when you’re giving head as well! Make sure you enjoy yourself and make sure he knows that you’re enjoying yourself. It will definitely be a super-turn-on for him.

Don’t Skimp On The Foreplay

Another thing that most women get wrong is that guys don’t like foreplay. I guess it’s all that television that portrays most guys as these macho brutes that just want to “bone”. It’s not true though. It’s in our human nature to enjoy foreplay.

Anyone of you that has ever had a session of really good foreplay knows how incredibly erotic and stimulating it can be. An analogy I like to share when talking about foreplay is that the whole sexual act can be compared to a rubber band.

Foreplay is like taking that rubber band and stretching it out, adding more and more tension to it. At last when you decide to let the rubber band go, the release will be much stronger than if you didn’t pull it out.

Since I’ve already started out with only giving you the best-of-the-best of my tips, I might as well continue here:

The Secret To Great Foreplay Is This:

  • Two Steps Forward / One Step Back. You have to try this out for yourself. It’s blows my mind how simple but still so effective this is. The easiest way to explain is by giving you an example:So if you want to give him head, you might start kissing his chest, moving down towards his stomach and then his groin. But then, instead of doing the “predictable” thing – continuing towards his cock, you stop and go back to his stomach.Two Steps Forward, One Step Back. Do this enough and you’ll drive him crazy before you even start giving him head!

Blowjob Techniques

I KNOW you’ve been dying to read these. “WHERE ARE THE TECHNIQUES!??” I hear you ask yourself. We’re finally here :)

Here are some of my favorite tips and tricks when it comes to giving great head:

  • Use Your Hands. Some people think that if you’re using your hand you’re not giving a “real” blowjob. That’s completely crazy. I’d like to say that if you’re not using your hands, you’re not giving a proper blowjob. You can create a lot more stimulation and pleasure for your man by using your hand combined with your mouth than you can by just using your mouth. Also, it gives you another tool to keep experimenting with to keep things fresh.
  • Massage His Balls. It’s easy to think that a blowjob is just about his penis and your mouth. In the first tip, I made it clear that you should be using your hands as well. Here, I want to tell you not to just focus on his penis. His testicles are also really sensitive and if you play with them a little as well, it can add another dimension to what your doing.
  • Play With All Of His Body. Taking the last tip a step further, don’t restrict yourself to just his scrotum. It’s been said that the whole body is one giant erogenous zone. Give him a backrub, run your hands over his chest or his stomach, kiss his thighs and nibble on his nipples. Don’t forget that he’s more than just a penis.
  • Massage The Magic Spot. This is a personal favourite of mine. “The Magic Spot” is a fleshy spot located just underneath his balls, about halfway in between his anus and the root of his penis. Massage him there firmly with either two of your fingers or if you’re feeling bold, with the tip of your tongue, while you keep jerking him off. It will feel absolutely amazing for him.
  • Take His Hand. Learning how to give head is not just about learning the right “techniques” for the physical stimulation. Blowjobs, as every other type of sexual activity, consists also in large of a psychological aspect. Most men will enjoy it if you take his hand and place it on top of your head or on your chest as it displays that you’re really into what you’re doing, which heats him up even more.
  • Lick Your Way to The Top. This is one is one of my favourite blowjob tips. Start at the root of his penis, or even below his balls if you want, and *slowly* start licking your way up the shaft of his penis. When you eventually reach the top of his shaft completely swallow his manhood. He. Will. EXPLODE!
  • Look Him In The Eyes. The last tip I wanted to offer you is quite simple, but it’s something that again shows that learning how to give great head is not just about physical stimulation; it’s about simulating his mind. Guys love to watch while you’re giving him head, so if you once in a while give him long, horny stares, you’ll really push his buttons.
  • Deep Throat. This is a easy technique to explain but a difficult one to master. Essentially, you unlearn the gag-reflex and allow your man to slide into your throat. Check out this excellent article on how to deep throat for more information.

A piece of general advice I like to give out to everyone that asks me for help is to make sure you lubricate his cock properly. All of these techniques will feel great for him, but they’ll feel even better if you’ve lubricated before you start; partly because it adds another level of sensation but partly because it reduces the amount of wear and tear on his penis. This is especially important if you’re using your hands to stimulate him (which you should).

These 7 Blowjob Techniques are some of my favorite. Of course, I have a lot more of these to share, but for now these will get you started.

Blowjob Positions

Sometimes it’s a good idea to switch the position. Different blowjob positions will give him different sensations as well as stimulating his mind. Variation is always good. A couple of positions you can try out is the Powerpose, the Dangler and the Throne. More information on these will follow the next few days, but just keep that in mind: Not only the techniques themselves will dictate how it feels but also in WHAT position you’re doing these techniques!

End Game

Is that all? No, not quite. To finish this mini-guide on how to give amazing head, we need to talk a little bit about “the end game”, ie, what you’re supposed to do when he’s about to cum.

Basically, here’s what you do:

  • Don’t Slow Down! There are many good periods during a blowjob when it can be beneficial if you change the pace, maybe do whatever it is you’re doing a little slower and generally “tease” him a little bit. When he’s about to come however, there’s no space for that. Whatever you’re doing, keep doing it until he’s arrived. If anything, go faster and harder!
  • Don’t Stop. When he’s cumming, a common mistake is to stop for whatever reason. Maybe you think he’s finished. But the truth is that if you keep going a little while, you can extend his pleasure and the length of his orgasm by a large bit.
  • Then, Go Slower. The tip on going faster and harder is valid all through the period when he’s about to cum. But just when he’s in the process of cumming, there’s a specific time where if you slow down to an almost slow-motiony pace, you can significantly prolong his orgasm. How long into his ejaculation you slow down is different for all men, and would be pretty difficult to learn from reading it. Hands-on-experience and some good old fashioned trial and error is recommended. Usually it’s somewhere between 2-10 seconds after he started cumming.
  • Swallow Or Don’t Swallow? Something that’s been a classic hot topic ever since oral sex became popularized in wester society is the debate of whether or not you should swallow or not swallow. I would say go either way; if you don’t mind then definitely swallow. If it’s very hard for you, at least let him come in your mouth and then afterwards just spit it out in a tissue or something.

After he’s shot his load, his penis is going to go into a hypersensitive state. Most men prefer that you don’t touch the penis, especially the head, when just after his ejaculation. If you do, it’s almost going to feel painful for him. However, if you don’t just want to stop cold, you can always cup his balls with your hands afterwards. It gives you both a small sense of closeness.

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Blowjob Techniques

Written on April 26, 2009 by Patrick in

When I write about how to give head, I tend to focus on the details. I focus on the importance of stimulating all of his senses, to use foreplay to magnify the fun and simply put to stimulate his mind and not only his body. As you might know, his mind is the biggest erogenous zone on him.

But even though I do all of this, and I know that you gals appreciate it, I know that most of you are looking for something else. You’re looking for the “Secret Blowjob Techniques“. You know, that single thing you can do to take his pleasure over the top. :)

If that sounds like you, then this post is specifically written for you. In it I’ve gathered some of the best blowjob techniques I know of. Some are super practical while some might only serve as inspiration. Enjoy.

Blowjob Techniques

  • Lick A Lollipop. A great blowjob technique for you to use is to treat his cock as if it were a lollipop. Start at the base of his cock, and slowly lick your way to the top. Make sure you do it slowly; so he can really enjoy the sensations your inducing. When you finally reach the head of his cock, swallow as much of it as you can in one big gulp. Highly recommended.
  • Suck On His Balls. In my ongoing campaign for body awareness, I always like to stress that his balls are super-sensitive spots that are just *DYING* to be stimulated. Just gently pop one of them (or if you’re feeling bold, both of them!) into your mouth and suck on them lightly.
  • Stretch The Skin Out. This technique is not something I’d say is a “fantastic” blowjob technique, sensation-wise. But it is however a great technique to show off to your man that you know what you’re doing. Simply use either your fingers or your teeth to stretch out the skin of his ball sack. It has a very peculiar feeling to it that he’ll be sure to appreciate.
  • Massage the Magic Spot. Another great blowjob technique. “The Magic Spot” as I like to call it, is a soft, fleshy spot just underneath a mans ballsack. You can stimulate it either with your fingers, or if you’re feeling a bit bold, use your tongue to do the same thing. You should know though that you need to be quite firm in your pressure here, so it can get tiring for the tongue to stay down there for too long. But on the other hand, he’s definitely going to appreciate it. Highly recommended.
  • Flick His Head. Another fantastic blowjob technique is to flick his head. On the underside of his penis, right at the top where the shaft and the head connect, theres a spot which is *incredibly* sensitive. Use your tongue to flick that spot quickly over and over again and you’re bound to send him over the top in no time.
  • The Rotating Hands. If you’re one of those gals that believe that you’re not supposed to use your hands when you’re giving a blowjob then I have two things to say to you… You’re wrong… And your man is missing out!! Try this: While you’re sucking his cock, wrap either one (or if your man is of the larger size… )
    or both of your hands around his cock. While going over his cock with your mouth, follow your mouth with your hands. At the same, while you’re going up and down with your hands, keep rotating them in different directions. WARNING: When You Start Doing This… He IS Going to Cum QUICKLY!
  • Make a Ring Around His Base & The Magic Spot. At last I wanted to include a little “trick” for you to use when you feel like he’s about to cum. Just when he’s about to cum, create a tight little right with by pressing for index finger and your thumb together. Then, push this TIGHT little ring over his cock and keep it right at the base. At the same time, start massaging the Magic Spot HARD and Wait For The Fireworks. It’s a little complicated to get right, but once you do, you can prolong and extend his orgasm by more than even He thought was possible.
  • Anal Stimulation. Depending on how confident your man is with his sexuality, he might enjoy stimulation to his anus. You never want to ask him outright how to do it as that will scare him off quickly. But if you slowly but progressively move your hand towards his anus and just let it rest there at first, you can ease him into it. Let it rest there for a moment and then slowly start massaging it. If he’s alright with that, you can even try pushing a lubed up finger into his ass.

One additional tip: If you want to increase the overall pleasure level of all of these techniques, make sure you lubricate his cock properly. The wetter the better!

These are just some of my best blowjob techniques to get you started. Of course, these are not all of them, but as I said, they’ll get you started. This list will also be continually updated and expanded over time. If you liked this list, then I know you’ll love the list of  blowjob tips I’ve written just for you.

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How To Give Head: Heat Him Up Before You Start

Written on April 23, 2009 by Patrick in How To Give Head

I know that when you’re trying to learn how to give head, you’re really just looking for the “techniques“; you’re so hungry for the special *super* blowjob technique that will blow his mind.

While there are a bunch blowjob techniques that do feel amazing for him, they’re rendered useless if you don’t pay attention to the details. One of these details is foreplay.

If you tease him properly before you actually start giving him head, both you and he will end up enjoying yourselves a tonne more.

*Foreplay Tip*: Kiss, Bite, Tug, Pull and Lick every part of his body except for his cock and his balls. If you do this enough, he’ll go crazy and almost beg you to go down on him.

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How To Give Head: Vary Technique & Pace

Written on April 22, 2009 by Patrick in How To Give Head

The most important thing to remember, especially if you’re just starting to learn how to give great head, is to keep things interesting. Especially when you’re new to something, as soon as you find something that works you’re prone to wanting to repeat the same thing over and over again.

But don’t do that.

Even the greatest sensations fade over time.

Something that felt amazing for him the first time, will surely not feel as great if you keep doing it for ten minutes straight.

This is just how we work as human beings; what gets repeated gets boring.

So remember to vary  yourself all the time while you’re learning how to give great head.

Change your technique.

Vary your position.

Speed it up.

Slow it down.

Keep it fresh!

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How To Give Head: Are Blowjobs Derogatory Towards Women?

Written on April 21, 2009 by Patrick in How To Give Head

One thing that some women are a little bit stuck up on when they’re trying to learn how to give head is that some of them have gotten the idea that blowjobs are “derogatory towards women”.

Are they really?

I think that they’re definitely not. When I was talking to some of my female friends about this topic, one of them told me something that I found very interesting. She said “I have the most precious part of his body right between my teeth. I control both his penis and whatever pleasure I decide to give him. In a way, he’s my bitch now”.

While she did express herself a bit powerfully, it really does ring true. It’s not he that has all the power. It’s YOU that have all the power! So don’t let that stop you if you want to learn how to give great head.

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How To Give Head: Tips On Blowing His Mind Part 1

Written on March 31, 2009 by Patrick in How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's
Enthusiasm Source: Elmo Alves

Hey Ladies! (And Maybe Gentlemen As Well?)

As I promised before, I’m writing up some great new stuff for this blog. First up is a four part article series on how to give head to your man. I’ll be posting one part each week (so you’ll have something to look forward to!) and I’ll be covering all the bases; having the right attitude, how to have exciting foreplay, some mind blowing techniques to use and some extra special blowjob tips for the “endgame”.

This first part of the series is going to be about having the right attitude when giving your man a blowjob. Now, you might think “What’s that got to do with learning how to give head?”. Girl, you have no idea.

There are three main things to think about if you’re not already conscious about them:

1. Be Enthusiastic. There is NOTHING more universally attractive than a woman who enjoys whatever it is she’s doing. So whatever you’re doing, enjoy yourself and do it a hundred percent.

You probably enjoy giving him head on some level anyway. Just let go of any conflicting emotions and let your enjoyment shine through you. He will most definitely notice.

For those of you who might not immediately feel the inspiration, just focus on the positives of the situation: How you just love to hear him moan and squirm from your treatment, How great it feels to have his manhood inside your mouth, How much you enjoy being able to please your man fully.

Just focusing on the positives will take you a long way in terms of enjoyment.

2. Take Initiative. Since we’re already talking about traits that are extremely attractive, I thought I might as well throw this in: A Woman Who’s Not Afraid To Take Initiative is Most Men

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How to Give a Blowjob: 3 Techniques to Strengthen His Orgasm

Written on December 24, 2008 by Patrick in How To Give a BJ Do's
Make His Orgasm Stronger
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It’s been quiet for a couple of days; I’ve simply been too busy with all the Christmas preparations. To make it up for you, I have a special treat in store for you gals who want to know how to give a proper bj.

Today I’m going to give you a couple of tips on how to strengthen his orgasm, how to make it longer and simply amplify it by several times.

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How To Give a Blowjob In Public: How To Give Road Head

Written on December 16, 2008 by Patrick in How To Give a BJ Do's
Road HeadSource: nicholas_t

Many people nowadays would like to know how to give head in different places. On the How to Give a BJ blog I’ve already written about how you can give head at the movie theaters, and today I wanted to talk about another popular location.

This article is going to be about how to give road head. For those of you who are not familiar with the terminology; road head is when you give a blowjob in a car, most often while the man is busy driving.

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How To Give a Blowjob At the Movie Theaters

Written on November 30, 2008 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give a BJ Do's

Since I recently wrote up the post on fun locations to give your man a blowjob, I’ve received some very curious questions on a particular one of the places. It’s seem that a lot of people are curious on how to give a blowjob at the movie theaters. That’s why I’ve decided to write up this post that essentially is a mini-guide to giving head at the theater.

There are a couple of different things you need to handle in order to get caught or attract too much attention to yourselves. First off, choose either a timing when no one goes to see a movie, such as late in the night or early in the day. Second of all, you can watch a movie that’s either somewhat old or simply not that good. Personally, even though I’m going to get a blowjob, I’d prefer to see a good movie, but that’s up to the two of you.

Then when you go in, simply find the most secluded place in the theater so you can give your blowjob without people seeing. Usually, the back-row is the best place to do this. Watch out for the little projector-box though, since that’s actually a room that sometimes has staff in it.

And then start watching the movie. When you feel the time is right, start stroking him a little with your hand, teasing him. Discreetly unbutton his pants and unbuckle his belt. Grab his cock and give it a couple of nice soft strokes. When you’ve properly warmed him up, push up the armrest and start giving him some exciting head. If there’s someone else in the theater, that’s usually not a problem. People are either pretty so in to the movie that they don’t notice, or they simply don’t care.

The last thing is to keep an eye out for are employee checks. They usually come at regular intervals so if they just did a check, then you can probably assume that you have a solid fifteen to thirty minutes of “free” time. Use it wisely!

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