Giving good head can be an amazing way to strengthen your bond with your man as well as fortify your relationship. But since giving a blowjob can sometimes become something mundane, in this article I’ve gathered three of my favorite tips on how to give amazing head. If you just use these three things, you can instantly make your man desire you even more.
- Take initiative. One thing that can be really exciting and attractive to a man is when the woman takes the initiative to the blowjob even before he’s had the thought. That way you surprise him with your desire and in doing that turn him on even more.
- Look into his eyes. Men are extremely visual. We love watching during a blowjob. You should definitely use that to your advantage and give him long stares of deep lust while you’re giving head. You don’t need to keep eye-contact during the whole thing, a couple of long stares will more than suffice.
- Swallow his ejaculate. This last one is such a widely debated issue, and I’m not going to spoil this post by putting myself in the middle of it just take this tip: If you can swallow, then swallow. He’ll seriously enjoy it a lot better than if you pull out his penis at the last moment.
These three small tips might seem trivial, but don’t judge them before you try them. They’re simply fantastic at spicing up the blowjob and take it to a new level. So remember, take initative, look into his eyes, and at the end, swallow his semen. Also, remember to check out our guide on how to give head; it’s packed with great tips.
I finally recieved one of my first reader questions from the reader James King on the post of where you can surprise your man with a bj. The question follows:
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I read a post by Ken where he talks about people who say that guys really don’t care or can’t tell the difference where they ejaculate. Of course guys can tell the difference.
But I think that the underlying reason is not the feeling-sensation but rather the psychological aspect of the ejaculation. A woman who gladly swallow his mans semen signals a bunch of positive things to her man; acceptance, enthusiasm, horniness etc. Compare that to a woman who reluctantly lets his man seep out his ejaculation in her hand; which of course gives off the completely wrong vibe.
If a woman was sucking me off sincerely and enthusiastically told me “Please, PLEASE squirt YOUR SEED all over my FACE, I want to feel your warm manjuice ALL OVER ME” that really do the trick for me. So I think that the most important thing is under what circumstances his penis ejaculates, rather than the actual location of it.
In any case, Ken writes in a hilarious manner, and especially this paragraph made me laugh:
Sure, most women do not naturally enjoy the taste and texture of ejaculate. Some don’t let on to that, some pretend to like it, and some learn to like it. Do you think the first time we smelled your natural vaginal odor, we thought “Well, that
An incredibly fun and exciting way to spice things up is to give him a spontaneous blowjob like in this post where they discuss where you can try out those “public” blowjobs to make things a little more exciting.
It all depends on what type of person you are, but I really recommend that you don’t go down on your man unless the risk of you getting caught is pretty insignificant; but as with most exciting things, the lesser the risk, the lesser the fun.
Here are some more or less public places to give him a spontaneous-surprise-blowjob.
- His Office. While very dangerous if you get caught, just stopping by at his workplace for a quick blowjob can make his day, or even his whole week just because he’s so not expecting it. Just make sure you don’t get caught; you don’t want to get him fired just because you’re up for some fun!
- Public Bathroom. Also a great place that many of us has been with our loved ones. Just make sure it’s nice and clean. You don’t want to have his cock in your mouth at the same time as you’re smelling shit.
- Movie Theaters. What happens in the deep dark corners of a movie theaters is only between you and your man. Stake the theater out, make sure no one sees you and keep an eye out for the theater-staff. Also, remember that the little box where the projector lies is a little room with people sitting so don’t go displaying everything right in front of it.
- In the Car. Sucking cock in a car is one of the most popular variants of a surprise blowjob. Road head as it’s also called not only brings out the rush of the risk of getting caught, but it also gets your adrenaline going since it can be pretty dangerous. If you want a milder version, just do it while he’s parked!
- In a Park. You and your man have been out for drinks with some friends. On your way home you pass a dark little, secluded park. What better way to finish the night than by giving your man the most amazing head he’s ever had. Stay out of the foot road in order to minimize the risk of getting caught.
These all have they’re special feels to them and it’s up to you to decide which are just enough risky and which are too risky. Most of the times, if you get caught you just get an adrenaline rush and some momentary embarrassment, but for some of the places like at his office, it can potentially have graver consequences, so be responsible!
If you’re new to all of this, you can check out our guide on how to give head first.
Good luck!
Yes, it is a funny title. No, I don’t have any problem with saying I’m funny. It’s all cool. It’s time for another lesson in How to Give a BJ. Today it’s going to be about a common misconception. A lot of people I’ve met think that a blowjob should only be about your mouth and his cock. While it’s pretty sweet for him to see you going mouth-only; it’s more like the icing on top of the cake, rather than the cake itself.
If you’re going to do it for an extended period of a time, you should definitely grab a hold of that cock with either one or both of your hands. It makes it that much more pleasurable for him and adds a whole new sensation to it. My male friends have told me it’s almost like her mouth was extended by four inches. If that’s not a testimony to success then I don’t know what is!
The secret to adding the manual love is to make it nice and wet beforehand. And by nice and wet I mean make that bastard slippery as hell. You want a tiny bit of friction and positive pressure; but you dont want to skin him. You definitely don’t want to skin him. Just lube him up with your saliva and then as your sucking his cock, wrap your hand firmly around the shaft. Now here’s the killer: When you’re moving your mouth up and down, hold your hand close to your mouth and you’ll give him the super-mouth sensation!
If you do this properly, you’re definitely going to get a moan or ten out of him! You can thank me later. And check back tomorrow for another session of How to Give Amazing Head! 
