So here’s the tip: After you’ve heated him up properly and you’ve already started giving him head, use your index finger and middle finger to find his PERINEUM. His perineum is a soft, fleshy part underneath his testicles, right between his ball sack and his anus.

Once you find it start massaging it FIRMLY while you keep giving him head. A fair warning: Don’t be surprised if this sends him completely OVER THE TOP… It’s ridiculously effective!

As the night progressed, everyone at the party was starting to get a little tipsy, including me and my girlfriend. Suddenly, she grabbed my hand and lead me upstairs in the old villa where the party was held. She checked right and left and when she saw that no one was there, she pulled me into the bathroom.

There she went down on her knees, ripped up my belt and proceeded to give me the best blowjob I’ve ever had. Why was it so great? Here are something you can learn on how to give head from “Lucy”.

• “Head” is a dish best served by surprise. Now, don’t get me wrong, giving head in the bed is also fantastic, but giving him a blowjob when he’s LEAST expecting it will feel that much more worth it. Just ask yourself, if your boyfriend bought you a diamond necklace for your birthday, that would be fantastic right? But if your boyfriend just bought you a diamond necklace on any random day, just because he loved you so much, wouldn’t that be that much more special?
• Confidence is super attractive. Another thing that Lucy did 100% right is that she had the confidence and the courage to take the bull by the horn(s) (pun intended!). Some relationships have almost hardwired roles where one partner is the dominant one and the other is the submissive one. Those are good. But I have some news for you: the best relationships are NEVER hard wired. They always keep changing. Sometimes he seduces you, sometimes you seduce him. That’s how you keep things FRESH and EXCITING month after month.
• She KNEW what she was doing. One of the best things about Lucy was that our communication about sex was so open. You know how hard it can feel to talk with someone your sleeping with about sex? Maybe it’s because you don’t want to seem like you don’t know, or maybe you don’t want to step on their toes, but whatever it is, it’s completely counter-productive. Me and Lucy had NONE of that. I taught her everything I knew and she too taught me a thing or two.

If you also want to learn how to give great head check out the guide on this blog, or even better, check out the Great Head Guide. You can thank me later!!

It’s been quiet for a couple of days; I’ve simply been too busy with all the Christmas preparations. To make it up for you, I have a special treat in store for you gals who want to know how to give a proper bj.

Today I’m going to give you a couple of tips on how to strengthen his orgasm, how to make it longer and simply amplify it by several times.

If you want to make him cum harder, the most important thing is to have timing. If you do the right thing at the wrong time it can actually shorten his orgasm instead of prolonging it. So just remember that. You can’t of course expect to get it perfectly right the first time; I’m just pointing it out so that you know what you should focus on the most.

Here are my 3 Favourite techniques to give him a stronger orgasm.

1. Squeeze the Base. Just when he’s about to cum, put a tight o-grip around the base of his penis and squeeze it tightly, like you would if you wanted to stop his semen to reach the surface. Do this for a while, and eventually let go.
2. Pressure the Perineum. Another good tip is to pressure his perineum at the moment of ejaculation. The perineum is located just below his ball sack, right in between the testicles and the anus. If you push hard at that fleshy spot, it has almost the same effect as when you Squeeze the Base, but with the difference that when done right, it feels much, much better.
3. Continue Stroking Him. Another sort of counter-intuitive tip is to continue stroking him after he’s ejaculated. I know; guys get really sensitive when they’ve ejaculated. But I’m not suggesting you should keep pumping him at 100 mph forever, but if you continue stroking him at a very slow pace, you can prolong his orgasm and give him some very nice sensations for a long time afterwards.

That’s all for today. If you haven’t read our guide on how to give great head, you should. Talk to you in a couple of days.

Oh, and by the way, Merry Christmas!

If you’re going to do it for an extended period of a time, you should definitely grab a hold of that cock with either one or both of your hands. It makes it that much more pleasurable for him and adds a whole new sensation to it. My male friends have told me it’s almost like her mouth was extended by four inches. If that’s not a testimony to success then I don’t know what is!

The secret to adding the manual love is to make it nice and wet beforehand. And by nice and wet I mean make that bastard slippery as hell. You want a tiny bit of friction and positive pressure; but you dont want to skin him. You definitely don’t want to skin him. Just lube him up with your saliva and then as your sucking his cock, wrap your hand firmly around the shaft. Now here’s the killer: When you’re moving your mouth up and down, hold your hand close to your mouth and you’ll give him the super-mouth sensation!

If you do this properly, you’re definitely going to get a moan or ten out of him! You can thank me later. And check back tomorrow for another session of How to Give Amazing Head!