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Quick *SUPER TIP* for Giving Great Head…

Written on June 21, 2010 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's, How to give head tips

Today I’m going to give you a quick tip that can really SUPER-CHARGE your performance in bed. It’s one of those tips that will make you feel really appreciated after you’ve used it, simply because he’s going to be SQUIRMING with pleasure. Don’t be surprised if he BEGS you not to stop!

So here’s the tip: After you’ve heated him up properly and you’ve already started giving him head, use your index finger and middle finger to find his PERINEUM. His perineum is a soft, fleshy part underneath his testicles, right between his ball sack and his anus.

Once you find it start massaging it FIRMLY while you keep giving him head. A fair warning: Don’t be surprised if this sends him completely OVER THE TOP… It’s ridiculously effective!

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How To Give Head Tip #2 The Tongue Extender

Written on May 26, 2010 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's, How to give head tips

It’s finally time for the second tip in our little series. Are you ready? Last time we talked about how you can tease him, a sort of foreplay tip that can up your game. Today’s “how to give head tip” is a full on blowjob technique that you can use next time you’re playing around with his penis.

Today’s tip is how you can use your tongue, one of the most flexible parts of the body, to send pleasure searing through each and every fiber of his body. How do you do it?

Start by doing your normal “start up routine”, if you have some foreplay or whatever, then do that at first. Then gradually start giving him head. Once you’re up to speed and you have his cock in your mouth, then you can use this technique.

While you’re holding his cock as deep as you can in your mouth/throat, open your mouth a tad more and extend your tongue. In a way, pretend like you are “pulling” his cock even further. This might sound like a pretty petite tip, but in fact the pleasure is double: for one, you’re giving him all sorts of extra stimulation in a part where you can’t reach with your mouth, but there’s also an added bonus to this whole deal:

When you extend your tongue in a fashion where you’re thinking about “pulling” his cock further into your mouth, you are actually going to be able to PUSH HIM FURTHER IN! It might sound strange, put when you imagine it in your head, suddenly the results will appear in real life. It’s almost like The Secret.

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How To Give Head Tip #1: Don’t Give Him Head

Written on May 24, 2010 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's, How to give head tips

I wanted to start off a new series on this blog where I give you a daily tip on how you can give great head to a guy. I’ll be adding new tips as we move a long and hopefully, soon you’ll be giving head like a pro!

So. The first tip I’m going to share with you today is a “teaser technique”, that is, it’s meant to heighten his anticipation to a level where he’ll almost beg you to suck him off.

The way I learned of this technique is actually that a girl actually did it to me! It was a girl I met a few years back. We had been seeing each other for a while then and things were going great. One morning, after she had spent the night at my place, she was heading to the office. As she was about to step out of the door, she knelt down on her knees, unbuttoned my pants and started giving me head, out of the blue.

Now, at first I wasn’t even considering sex because I had just woken up, but a few moments later, I was rock hard and all I wanted was her to keep doing what she was doing. So what happened?

She stopped giving me head, rose up and told me “I have to go to work now, have a nice day!”. I was perplexed! It was a quick turn, not thinking about sex at all to ONLY THINKING about sex. You bet I was already going when she came home that evening…

This tip is actually really easy. Whenever you feel like he’s enjoying it the most, stop. Tease him a little. He might not think he wants you to stop, but in the end he’s going to appreciate it that much more.

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How To Give Head Like You Mean It (Part II)

Written on May 20, 2010 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's

Yesterday I talked a little bit about why it’s so important NOT to do something if you can’t do it fully. Simply put, doing something with a negative or resisting energy (to put it in hippie-terminology!) taints everything it touches. That includes giving head!

So how do give head like you’re enjoying it? Easiest way and most consistent way, believe it or not, is to enjoy giving head.

“But Patrick, what if I don’t?”, I hear you moan.

We can fix that!

In the end, when you boil it down, enjoying something consists of three different parts, all which are in your control.

  1. Remove any thing that stops you from enjoying yourself. If your man has a smelly dick or way too much hair down there, tell him so. Most guys have no problem cleaning up down there if you make them realize it bothers you. Besides, they’re getting a big return on it!
  2. Bring everything you’ve got to the table. What we invest in, we enjoy. If you bring 100% of yourself to the table, if you invest a hundred percent of your attention in what you are doing, you are almost BOUND to enjoy yourself sooner or later. Once you really realize this, it can change your life.
  3. Focus on what you like about giving head. Don’t you love the way his cock fills your mouth? Or how exciting it is to be in total control of his most prized possession? Or how you can make him twist and turn and moan with a flick of your tongue? The last but definitely not least part of enjoying yourself is to start focusing on what you like about it rather than what you don’t like. If you focus on the negatives, then it becomes work. If you look at the positives, it becomes play.

In the next part of this series, I’m going to give you some more blowjob tips on how you can make giving head more fun for YOURSELF!

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Foreplay Tips

Written on May 19, 2010 by Patrick in

Yeah, I know, the title is a riot, but I love these alliterations. But I digress. This article is going to talk about what you can do as a woman to really boost your performance ACROSS THE BOARD when giving head to your man.

I like to call it “the only way to get your man going before you even get going” (I’m really on a run with my phrasings today!). Basically, it will help you out, whatever it is your doing, by a multiple. That is, even if you’re doing some really lame, counter-productive techniques that men are actually embarrassed to tell their friends about, you’ll make them at least TWICE as good with proper foreplay.

So what is proper foreplay? Foreplay is really all about letting your partners mind run ahead of the actual physical stimulation. That “gap” will then create an enormous lust and excitement within him. In other words: you want to make him think dirty thoughts, but not actually get them realized.

With that great definition, if I may say so myself, how do you do great foreplay?

There are many different ways to attack this problem as long as you keep the purpose of it in the back of your head. Biting, kissing, tugging and pulling everything on his body except for the most sensitive parts (his genital area!) will get him going.

Something to think about is to do everything as LIGHT and as SLOW as humanly possible. That is, you don’t want to place the whole of your hand and FIRMLY RUB HIS STOMACHE IN A RAPID SUCCESSION. No, doing that would probably make him need to visit the bathroom.

A better way to go about it would be to use the TIPS of your fingers and run them across the side of his chest ever so lightly, and do so slowly that you’re almost going backwards. That really captures the essence of what you’re trying to accomplish: letting his MIND wander ahead of the actual PHYSICAL stimulation.

So in you need to keep three things in your head: first is the right MINDSET which is to trigger his MIND with minimal stimulation to his PHYSICAL BODY. The second part is  to keep every physical stimulation as LIGHT as possible. Last but definitely not least do everything as SLOW as possible. Remember, slow IS sexy.

Now great foreplay is a fantastic way to boost your performance, but make sure you already have a firm grip on how to give head, or else you might not get him where you’re trying to take him…

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How to Give Head Like You Mean It (Part I)

Written on May 17, 2010 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's

Snap. Okay, today I want to talk about something that is often overlooked but nonetheless incredibly important. Today we’re going to talk about how to give head like you want it.

Have you ever done something that you didn’t want to do?

Maybe it was your mom telling you that you have to clean your room.

Maybe it was your boss telling you that you have to finish a pile of work before you head home.

Maybe it was one of your friends that told you that you have to come to her party.

Suddenly, you feel a huge resistance to doing what they’ve requested. A knot forms in your stomach and while you might  get the ‘job’ done anyway, it has become just that: a job, and you won’t draw as much pleasure from it as you could have otherwise.

When talking about giving head, your boyfriend will most probably not tell you “you HAVE to give me a blowjob“, at least not out right. But you know that he really likes it and that he really wants it and even though you might not be thrilled to do it, you do it because you think he expects it.

By now you’re probably realizing the point I’m trying to make. Even though in this case he’s not telling you “you have to give me head”, in your head you are TELLING YOURSELF THAT YOU HAVE TO. And that is just as bad! You won’t be enjoying yourself, and that will show in how well you do!

So what’s the solution?

Really, you have three options.

First option is, you keep sucking him off without wanting to do it, which will definitely show. Worst option.

The second alternative is to stop. That’s right; stop. If you can’t at least let go of feeling like you “have to do it” then it’s actually better to stop than to keep giving him head, both for you and for him. Anything you do with a tainted energy will simply spread.

The third and best alternative, however, is to START ENJOYING YOURSELF.

How do you do it?

I’ll elaborate on that more tomorrow!

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Give Better Blowjobs: Ask for Comments!

Written on May 11, 2009 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's

Reading up on how to give a blowjob is a great idea since it can give you general direction to what you want to do.

But in order to get really good at giving head, you need to practice and get feedback.

And since all guys are different and enjoy different types of stimulation, that feedback is worth it’s weight in gold.

A great way to know if you’re moving in the right direction is simply to ask your man for comments.

Don’t make the questions too big, keep it simple like: “Do you prefer when I do this, or when I did that? ” or “Does this feel good?”.

Also, don’t swamp him with questions either. He wants a blowjob, not to conduct a survey. If you ask too many questions the whole thing will start to feel mechanic.

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Surprise Your Man With a Blowjob

Written on May 10, 2009 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's

One of the best things about blowjob is that there’s really no bad time for a blowjob.

While he might need to be in the mood to have sex, to get a blowjob he just needs to be breathing.

Use that fact and give him a blowjob when he’s least expecting it. Maybe just as he’s walking through the door after a long day at work or just after dinner when you “accidentally” drop something under the dinner tabe.

Use your imagination!

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Steak and Blowjob Day

Written on May 8, 2009 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's

March 14th is the official “Steak and Blowjob Day”. It’s pretty self explanatory. It’s been called the “Valentine’s Day for Men”.

Basically, it’s a day where you give your man a steak and a blowjob; the two things a stereotype man loves the most.

Now, if you missed the official steak and  blowjob day, there’s no need to sweat it; just pick a day and surprise your man. He’ll definitely appreciate it.

Also, check out the list of blowjob techniques and blowjob tips so you’re properly prepared for his special day!

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5 Most Pleasurable Blowjob Positions

Written on May 6, 2009 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head

There are a couple of classic blowjob positions that you can use when you want to give your man head. In this post I’ll go through the top 5 positions.

  • The Classic 69. In this positions you’ll lie on your as your partner stands on all four on top of you with his cock over your head and his head over your genitals. Great double action.
  • The Star 69. Similar to the Classic 69, but instead of just laying flat on the bed, you push your legs back so your man can get full access to the whole area. If your man is feeling bold, he can do this as well.
  • Standing Up. Another good classic is when the man is standing up and you’re on your knees while giving him a blowjob. This is good for two reasons; primarily, he’ll be able to watch, but also the standing up increases the blood flow to his genitals.
  • The Dangler. A great blowjob position to use if you’re trying to learn how to deep throat. You lie on the bed with your head just dangling outside the bed Your man then stands right in front of your face and thrusts himself into you.
  • You Kneeling, Him Sitting. He Sits down on a chair while you kneel down on the floor and start giving him a blowjob. This is a great blowjob positions since he can just sit back and enjoy the ride.

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