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How To Give Head: Foreplay Heats Him Up (Part 2)

Written on April 13, 2009 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head

Hey Ladies (And Gentlemen),

It’s time for the second part in our series on how to give head. In the first part of the series, I talked about how the attitude is an important part of giving great head. Today I wanted to talk to you about foreplay. I think that foreplay has taken a little bit of the passenger seat over the last couple of years. At least where I live, foreplay is not considered to be as important as the “main event”.

But anyone that has ever had a session of really good foreplay knows how incredibly erotic it can be. An analogy I usually share when talking about foreplay is that the whole sexual act, from the first touch to the final climax, can be compared to a rubber band.

Foreplay is like taking that rubberband and stretching it out, adding more and more tension to it. At last when you decide to let the rubber band go, the release will be much larger than if you didn’t pull it out.

That’s really the best way to look at foreplay: As a way to get the buzz going before you actually get going.

So What Can I Do?
* Lingerie. This is not really foreplay, but I wanted to include this anyway. Sexy lingerie and generally just trying to look good will not only make him feel you’re even hotter than before, but it will get YOU feeling that you’re even hotter than before.

* Take It Slow. One of the keys to good foreplay is not to rush things. It’s important to take your time and let the tension build up. Remember, the bigger the build-up, the bigger the release.

* Two Steps Forward, One Step Back. This is *GOLDEN*. You *have* to try this out for yourself. This is really the simplest and greatest “technique” I’ve found for building tension in your sex-life. What it’s about is best described using an example:

So if you want to give him head, you might start kissing his chest, moving down towards his stomach and then his groing. But then, instead of doing the “predictable” thing – continuing towards his cock, you stop and go back to his stomache. Do this several times in different ways and it will infuriate and exhilarate him beyond your wildest dreams.

Now I know that sometimes you just don’t have the time or even the energy to have a prolonged foreplay session. That’s all fine and well. But I would like to advise you that at least once in a while, you *make* the time.

Having really great sex once in a while, the type of sex that really releases all that pent up energy, both physical, mental and even spiritual can do wonders for your personal life. You’ll feel like a new person. In the next part of the series on how to give head we’re going to get a lot more “hands-on” and I’m going to give you a bunch of practical blowjob techniques.

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How To Give Head: Tips On Blowing His Mind Part 1

Written on March 31, 2009 by Patrick in How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's
Enthusiasm Source: Elmo Alves

Hey Ladies! (And Maybe Gentlemen As Well?)

As I promised before, I’m writing up some great new stuff for this blog. First up is a four part article series on how to give head to your man. I’ll be posting one part each week (so you’ll have something to look forward to!) and I’ll be covering all the bases; having the right attitude, how to have exciting foreplay, some mind blowing techniques to use and some extra special blowjob tips for the “endgame”.

This first part of the series is going to be about having the right attitude when giving your man a blowjob. Now, you might think “What’s that got to do with learning how to give head?”. Girl, you have no idea.

There are three main things to think about if you’re not already conscious about them:

1. Be Enthusiastic. There is NOTHING more universally attractive than a woman who enjoys whatever it is she’s doing. So whatever you’re doing, enjoy yourself and do it a hundred percent.

You probably enjoy giving him head on some level anyway. Just let go of any conflicting emotions and let your enjoyment shine through you. He will most definitely notice.

For those of you who might not immediately feel the inspiration, just focus on the positives of the situation: How you just love to hear him moan and squirm from your treatment, How great it feels to have his manhood inside your mouth, How much you enjoy being able to please your man fully.

Just focusing on the positives will take you a long way in terms of enjoyment.

2. Take Initiative. Since we’re already talking about traits that are extremely attractive, I thought I might as well throw this in: A Woman Who’s Not Afraid To Take Initiative is Most Men

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New Updates Coming Up On How To Give Good Head

Written on March 20, 2009 by Patrick in How To Give a BJ Do's

Hey people,

I know I’ve been really bad at responding to your letters, comments and generally just updating the blog. I’ve been really preoccupied with work on my end and I’ve found it difficult to find time for the blog.

But you’re all going to be glad to know that things are looking better from now on and that I’ll be updating this blog reguarly from now on to try to give you some good tips on how to give great head.

So as they say on the radio
“stay tuned for more”

Warmly,
Patrick

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How to Give a Blowjob: 3 Techniques to Strengthen His Orgasm

Written on December 24, 2008 by Patrick in How To Give a BJ Do's
Make His Orgasm Stronger
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It’s been quiet for a couple of days; I’ve simply been too busy with all the Christmas preparations. To make it up for you, I have a special treat in store for you gals who want to know how to give a proper bj.

Today I’m going to give you a couple of tips on how to strengthen his orgasm, how to make it longer and simply amplify it by several times.

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How To Give a Blowjob In Public: How To Give Road Head

Written on December 16, 2008 by Patrick in How To Give a BJ Do's
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Many people nowadays would like to know how to give head in different places. On the How to Give a BJ blog I’ve already written about how you can give head at the movie theaters, and today I wanted to talk about another popular location.

This article is going to be about how to give road head. For those of you who are not familiar with the terminology; road head is when you give a blowjob in a car, most often while the man is busy driving.

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How To Give a Blowjob At the Movie Theaters

Written on November 30, 2008 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give a BJ Do's

Since I recently wrote up the post on fun locations to give your man a blowjob, I’ve received some very curious questions on a particular one of the places. It’s seem that a lot of people are curious on how to give a blowjob at the movie theaters. That’s why I’ve decided to write up this post that essentially is a mini-guide to giving head at the theater.

There are a couple of different things you need to handle in order to get caught or attract too much attention to yourselves. First off, choose either a timing when no one goes to see a movie, such as late in the night or early in the day. Second of all, you can watch a movie that’s either somewhat old or simply not that good. Personally, even though I’m going to get a blowjob, I’d prefer to see a good movie, but that’s up to the two of you.

Then when you go in, simply find the most secluded place in the theater so you can give your blowjob without people seeing. Usually, the back-row is the best place to do this. Watch out for the little projector-box though, since that’s actually a room that sometimes has staff in it.

And then start watching the movie. When you feel the time is right, start stroking him a little with your hand, teasing him. Discreetly unbutton his pants and unbuckle his belt. Grab his cock and give it a couple of nice soft strokes. When you’ve properly warmed him up, push up the armrest and start giving him some exciting head. If there’s someone else in the theater, that’s usually not a problem. People are either pretty so in to the movie that they don’t notice, or they simply don’t care.

The last thing is to keep an eye out for are employee checks. They usually come at regular intervals so if they just did a check, then you can probably assume that you have a solid fifteen to thirty minutes of “free” time. Use it wisely!

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A Couple of Tips on How to Give Amazing Head

Written on November 30, 2008 by Patrick in How To Give a BJ Do's

Giving good head can be an amazing way to strengthen your bond with your man as well as fortify your relationship. But since giving a blowjob can sometimes become something mundane, in this article I’ve gathered three of my favorite tips on how to give amazing head. If you just use these three things, you can instantly make your man desire you even more.

  1. Take initiative. One thing that can be really exciting and attractive to a man is when the woman takes the initiative to the blowjob even before he’s had the thought. That way you surprise him with your desire and in doing that turn him on even more.
  2. Look into his eyes. Men are extremely visual. We love watching during a blowjob. You should definitely use that to your advantage and give him long stares of deep lust while you’re giving head. You don’t need to keep eye-contact during the whole thing, a couple of long stares will more than suffice.
  3. Swallow his ejaculate. This last one is such a widely debated issue, and I’m not going to spoil this post by putting myself in the middle of it just take this tip: If you can swallow, then swallow. He’ll seriously enjoy it a lot better than if you pull out his penis at the last moment.

These three small tips might seem trivial, but don’t judge them before you try them. They’re simply fantastic at spicing up the blowjob and take it to a new level. So remember, take initative, look into his eyes, and at the end, swallow his semen. Also, remember to check out our guide on how to give head; it’s packed with great tips.

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Reader Question: Her Teeth Are Grazing My Penis

Written on November 23, 2008 by Patrick in How to Give a BJ Blog

I finally recieved one of my first reader questions from the reader James King on the post of where you can surprise your man with a bj. The question follows:

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5 Places You Can Give Him a Surprise Blowjob

Written on November 17, 2008 by Patrick in How To Give a BJ Do's

An incredibly fun and exciting way to spice things up is to give him a spontaneous blowjob like in this post where they discuss where you can try out those “public” blowjobs to make things a little more exciting.

It all depends on what type of person you are, but I really recommend that you don’t go down on your man unless the risk of you getting caught is pretty insignificant; but as with most exciting things, the lesser the risk, the lesser the fun.

Here are some more or less public places to give him a spontaneous-surprise-blowjob.

  1. His Office. While very dangerous if you get caught, just stopping by at his workplace for a quick blowjob can make his day, or even his whole week just because he’s so not expecting it. Just make sure you don’t get caught; you don’t want to get him fired just because you’re up for some fun!
  2. Public Bathroom. Also a great place that many of us has been with our loved ones. Just make sure it’s nice and clean. You don’t want to have his cock in your mouth at the same time as you’re smelling shit.
  3. Movie Theaters. What happens in the deep dark corners of a movie theaters is only between you and your man. Stake the theater out, make sure no one sees you and keep an eye out for the theater-staff. Also, remember that the little box where the projector lies is a little room with people sitting so don’t go displaying everything right in front of it.
  4. In the Car. Sucking cock in a car is one of the most popular variants of a surprise blowjob. Road head as it’s also called not only brings out the rush of the risk of getting caught, but it also gets your adrenaline going since it can be pretty dangerous. If you want a milder version, just do it while he’s parked!
  5. In a Park. You and your man have been out for drinks with some friends. On your way home you pass a dark little, secluded park. What better way to finish the night than by giving your man the most amazing head he’s ever had. Stay out of the foot road in order to minimize the risk of getting caught.

These all have they’re special feels to them and it’s up to you to decide which are just enough risky and which are too risky. Most of the times, if you get caught you just get an adrenaline rush and some momentary embarrassment, but for some of the places like at his office, it can potentially have graver consequences, so be responsible!

If you’re new to all of this, you can check out our guide on how to give head first.

Good luck!

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How to Give a BJ: Give Him A Hand

Written on October 1, 2008 by Patrick in How To Give a BJ Do's

Yes, it is a funny title. No, I don’t have any problem with saying I’m funny. It’s all cool. It’s time for another lesson in How to Give a BJ. Today it’s going to be about a common misconception. A lot of people I’ve met think that a blowjob should only be about your mouth and his cock. While it’s pretty sweet for him to see you going mouth-only; it’s more like the icing on top of the cake, rather than the cake itself.

If you’re going to do it for an extended period of a time, you should definitely grab a hold of that cock with either one or both of your hands. It makes it that much more pleasurable for him and adds a whole new sensation to it. My male friends have told me it’s almost like her mouth was extended by four inches. If that’s not a testimony to success then I don’t know what is!

The secret to adding the manual love is to make it nice and wet beforehand. And by nice and wet I mean make that bastard slippery as hell. You want a tiny bit of friction and positive pressure; but you dont want to skin him. You definitely don’t want to skin him. Just lube him up with your saliva and then as your sucking his cock, wrap your hand firmly around the shaft. Now here’s the killer: When you’re moving your mouth up and down, hold your hand close to your mouth and you’ll give him the super-mouth sensation!

If you do this properly, you’re definitely going to get a moan or ten out of him! You can thank me later. And check back tomorrow for another session of How to Give Amazing Head! ;)

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