Today I’m going to give you a quick tip that can really SUPER-CHARGE your performance in bed. It’s one of those tips that will make you feel really appreciated after you’ve used it, simply because he’s going to be SQUIRMING with pleasure. Don’t be surprised if he BEGS you not to stop!
So here’s the tip: After you’ve heated him up properly and you’ve already started giving him head, use your index finger and middle finger to find his PERINEUM. His perineum is a soft, fleshy part underneath his testicles, right between his ball sack and his anus.
Once you find it start massaging it FIRMLY while you keep giving him head. A fair warning: Don’t be surprised if this sends him completely OVER THE TOP… It’s ridiculously effective!
One of the best experiences I’ve had with a woman was a girl I used to date a while back. One of my friends had a party that I wanted to go to, so I brought her with me. The night proceeded excellently and we had a whole lot of fun.
As the night progressed, everyone at the party was starting to get a little tipsy, including me and my girlfriend. Suddenly, she grabbed my hand and lead me upstairs in the old villa where the party was held. She checked right and left and when she saw that no one was there, she pulled me into the bathroom.
There she went down on her knees, ripped up my belt and proceeded to give me the best blowjob I’ve ever had. Why was it so great? Here are something you can learn on how to give head from “Lucy”.
- “Head” is a dish best served by surprise. Now, don’t get me wrong, giving head in the bed is also fantastic, but giving him a blowjob when he’s LEAST expecting it will feel that much more worth it. Just ask yourself, if your boyfriend bought you a diamond necklace for your birthday, that would be fantastic right? But if your boyfriend just bought you a diamond necklace on any random day, just because he loved you so much, wouldn’t that be that much more special?
- Confidence is super attractive. Another thing that Lucy did 100% right is that she had the confidence and the courage to take the bull by the horn(s) (pun intended!). Some relationships have almost hardwired roles where one partner is the dominant one and the other is the submissive one. Those are good. But I have some news for you: the best relationships are NEVER hard wired. They always keep changing. Sometimes he seduces you, sometimes you seduce him. That’s how you keep things FRESH and EXCITING month after month.
- She KNEW what she was doing. One of the best things about Lucy was that our communication about sex was so open. You know how hard it can feel to talk with someone your sleeping with about sex? Maybe it’s because you don’t want to seem like you don’t know, or maybe you don’t want to step on their toes, but whatever it is, it’s completely counter-productive. Me and Lucy had NONE of that. I taught her everything I knew and she too taught me a thing or two.
If you also want to learn how to give great head check out the guide on this blog, or even better, check out the Great Head Guide. You can thank me later!!
Reading up on how to give a blowjob is a great idea since it can give you general direction to what you want to do.
But in order to get really good at giving head, you need to practice and get feedback.
And since all guys are different and enjoy different types of stimulation, that feedback is worth it’s weight in gold.
A great way to know if you’re moving in the right direction is simply to ask your man for comments.
Don’t make the questions too big, keep it simple like: “Do you prefer when I do this, or when I did that? ” or “Does this feel good?”.
Also, don’t swamp him with questions either. He wants a blowjob, not to conduct a survey. If you ask too many questions the whole thing will start to feel mechanic.
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One of the best things about blowjob is that there’s really no bad time for a blowjob.
While he might need to be in the mood to have sex, to get a blowjob he just needs to be breathing.
Use that fact and give him a blowjob when he’s least expecting it. Maybe just as he’s walking through the door after a long day at work or just after dinner when you “accidentally” drop something under the dinner tabe.
Use your imagination!
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March 14th is the official “Steak and Blowjob Day”. It’s pretty self explanatory. It’s been called the “Valentine’s Day for Men”.
Basically, it’s a day where you give your man a steak and a blowjob; the two things a stereotype man loves the most.
Now, if you missed the official steak and blowjob day, there’s no need to sweat it; just pick a day and surprise your man. He’ll definitely appreciate it.
Also, check out the list of blowjob techniques and blowjob tips so you’re properly prepared for his special day!
There are a couple of classic blowjob positions that you can use when you want to give your man head. In this post I’ll go through the top 5 positions.
- The Classic 69. In this positions you’ll lie on your as your partner stands on all four on top of you with his cock over your head and his head over your genitals. Great double action.
- The Star 69. Similar to the Classic 69, but instead of just laying flat on the bed, you push your legs back so your man can get full access to the whole area. If your man is feeling bold, he can do this as well.
- Standing Up. Another good classic is when the man is standing up and you’re on your knees while giving him a blowjob. This is good for two reasons; primarily, he’ll be able to watch, but also the standing up increases the blood flow to his genitals.
- The Dangler. A great blowjob position to use if you’re trying to learn how to deep throat. You lie on the bed with your head just dangling outside the bed Your man then stands right in front of your face and thrusts himself into you.
- You Kneeling, Him Sitting. He Sits down on a chair while you kneel down on the floor and start giving him a blowjob. This is a great blowjob positions since he can just sit back and enjoy the ride.
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There are a lot of you that still are for some reason looking for more information on how to give a blowjob that will make your man explode with pleasure.
That is exactly why I’ve written this article. I’ve already written a great introductory article on how to give great head and list of great techniques for a blowjob but in this article I wanted to focus on some concerns you might have when you’re just starting out.
What If I Don’t Like The Taste Or Smell?
Just like women, men will both taste and smell a little more if they haven’t showered in a while. So if you’re sensitive to that kind of thing, you could always ask your man to clean up a little before you get jiggy with it.
What Do I Do With His Sperm?
The next common concern a lot of “newbies” have is that they’re almost a little worried about what they’re supposed to do with the semen.
If you’ve never tasted semen, it’s got a pretty neutral but at the same time a very distinct, salty taste. Most women that don’t like semen don’t actually complain about the taste but rather about the consistency of it. Depending on what type of diet your man follows and how much fluids he takes in on a daily basis, his load can be more or less viscous. Here’s a little information on swallowing semen.
Beginner’s Guide to Giving a Blowjob
I know a lot of you are new to this, so I’m going to give you a basic run through on how to give a blowjob. If you want more detailed info, check out the guide on how to give head, as well as the list of blowjob tips and techniques.
- Study up. Reading this guide as well as some of the other guides on this site will give you a better understanding of what to do, and more importantly How to do it. It will help you smooth out the whole process as well as give you some guidance. If nothing else, it’s a great source of inspiration…
- Get Comfortable. A sore neck is never a turn on. When you’re going to give him head, make sure you find a good position for you both. The best positions for giving head include
- Him lying on his back, you lying in between his legs. This is a good position as he’ll be able to relax completely, as well as letting you control the package all for yourself.
- Him standing up / sitting in a chair, you on your knees. Even though he might not be able to relax as much, this is a great position for him since he’ll be able to to watch you while you work (guy’s love to watch).
- Start Him Up. Sometimes just “jumping” on him can be nice. But for a better effect, I suggest you start out slowly and let him enjoy himself. It’s like warming up before going out to run. Of course you can start running right away, but it’s going to feel much better if you start slowly. Kiss him, lick him and tug him all around his body, get the juices flowing.
- Open Your Mouth. Slide your lips over you teeth to avoid painful contact. Make sure you lubricate his cock properly with your saliva as it will feel great for him, and it will alleviate any type of scuffing later on when you get your hands dirty. Slide over his cock.
- Be Imaginative. Giving a great blowjob is more than just going up and down repeatedly. Experiment a little; there are a lot of different ways to stimulate your man. Kiss, lick, tug, pull, bite (cautiously though); try it all out. Just remember to keep checking his body language for signs to show if he’s enjoying himself or not.
- Hands On. By gripping his *lubed up* (remeber this, otherwise you’ll end up wearing him out) manhood with your hand, you can give him loads more pleasure and take some of the weight off of your mouth. Wrap it around his cock and let your hand follow your mouth. Your mouth can now focus on more important things, the head of his penis for instance.
- Finish the Job. Ultimately, it’s your decision whether or not you want to swallow his load. Some women do it without even thinking about it, others cringe at the mere thought. In the end, just do what you’re most comfortable with. The amount is small, only a teaspoon or so, so it shouldn’t be that big of a problem. Whatever you do, just don’t stop midway.
Deep-Throating, What’s That?
For those of you who are new to this, deep-throating is when you take your man’s cock all the way into your mouth. It is called deep throating because anatomically speaking, unless your man is cursed in that department, you can’t fit the whole length of his penis in just your mouth but you will need to open up your throat and allow him to enter there.
It sounds more dramatic than it is, but if oral sex is new to you, I suggest you ignore deep-throating for now and just focus on doing all of the other things that make a blowjob great.
