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Blowjob Techniques

Written on April 26, 2009 by Patrick in

When I write about how to give head, I tend to focus on the details. I focus on the importance of stimulating all of his senses, to use foreplay to magnify the fun and simply put to stimulate his mind and not only his body. As you might know, his mind is the biggest erogenous zone on him.

But even though I do all of this, and I know that you gals appreciate it, I know that most of you are looking for something else. You’re looking for the “Secret Blowjob Techniques“. You know, that single thing you can do to take his pleasure over the top. :)

If that sounds like you, then this post is specifically written for you. In it I’ve gathered some of the best blowjob techniques I know of. Some are super practical while some might only serve as inspiration. Enjoy.

Blowjob Techniques

  • Lick A Lollipop. A great blowjob technique for you to use is to treat his cock as if it were a lollipop. Start at the base of his cock, and slowly lick your way to the top. Make sure you do it slowly; so he can really enjoy the sensations your inducing. When you finally reach the head of his cock, swallow as much of it as you can in one big gulp. Highly recommended.
  • Suck On His Balls. In my ongoing campaign for body awareness, I always like to stress that his balls are super-sensitive spots that are just *DYING* to be stimulated. Just gently pop one of them (or if you’re feeling bold, both of them!) into your mouth and suck on them lightly.
  • Stretch The Skin Out. This technique is not something I’d say is a “fantastic” blowjob technique, sensation-wise. But it is however a great technique to show off to your man that you know what you’re doing. Simply use either your fingers or your teeth to stretch out the skin of his ball sack. It has a very peculiar feeling to it that he’ll be sure to appreciate.
  • Massage the Magic Spot. Another great blowjob technique. “The Magic Spot” as I like to call it, is a soft, fleshy spot just underneath a mans ballsack. You can stimulate it either with your fingers, or if you’re feeling a bit bold, use your tongue to do the same thing. You should know though that you need to be quite firm in your pressure here, so it can get tiring for the tongue to stay down there for too long. But on the other hand, he’s definitely going to appreciate it. Highly recommended.
  • Flick His Head. Another fantastic blowjob technique is to flick his head. On the underside of his penis, right at the top where the shaft and the head connect, theres a spot which is *incredibly* sensitive. Use your tongue to flick that spot quickly over and over again and you’re bound to send him over the top in no time.
  • The Rotating Hands. If you’re one of those gals that believe that you’re not supposed to use your hands when you’re giving a blowjob then I have two things to say to you… You’re wrong… And your man is missing out!! Try this: While you’re sucking his cock, wrap either one (or if your man is of the larger size… )
    or both of your hands around his cock. While going over his cock with your mouth, follow your mouth with your hands. At the same, while you’re going up and down with your hands, keep rotating them in different directions. WARNING: When You Start Doing This… He IS Going to Cum QUICKLY!
  • Make a Ring Around His Base & The Magic Spot. At last I wanted to include a little “trick” for you to use when you feel like he’s about to cum. Just when he’s about to cum, create a tight little right with by pressing for index finger and your thumb together. Then, push this TIGHT little ring over his cock and keep it right at the base. At the same time, start massaging the Magic Spot HARD and Wait For The Fireworks. It’s a little complicated to get right, but once you do, you can prolong and extend his orgasm by more than even He thought was possible.
  • Anal Stimulation. Depending on how confident your man is with his sexuality, he might enjoy stimulation to his anus. You never want to ask him outright how to do it as that will scare him off quickly. But if you slowly but progressively move your hand towards his anus and just let it rest there at first, you can ease him into it. Let it rest there for a moment and then slowly start massaging it. If he’s alright with that, you can even try pushing a lubed up finger into his ass.

One additional tip: If you want to increase the overall pleasure level of all of these techniques, make sure you lubricate his cock properly. The wetter the better!

These are just some of my best blowjob techniques to get you started. Of course, these are not all of them, but as I said, they’ll get you started. This list will also be continually updated and expanded over time. If you liked this list, then I know you’ll love the list of  blowjob tips I’ve written just for you.

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How To Give Head: Foreplay Heats Him Up (Part 2)

Written on April 13, 2009 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head

Hey Ladies (And Gentlemen),

It’s time for the second part in our series on how to give head. In the first part of the series, I talked about how the attitude is an important part of giving great head. Today I wanted to talk to you about foreplay. I think that foreplay has taken a little bit of the passenger seat over the last couple of years. At least where I live, foreplay is not considered to be as important as the “main event”.

But anyone that has ever had a session of really good foreplay knows how incredibly erotic it can be. An analogy I usually share when talking about foreplay is that the whole sexual act, from the first touch to the final climax, can be compared to a rubber band.

Foreplay is like taking that rubberband and stretching it out, adding more and more tension to it. At last when you decide to let the rubber band go, the release will be much larger than if you didn’t pull it out.

That’s really the best way to look at foreplay: As a way to get the buzz going before you actually get going.

So What Can I Do?
* Lingerie. This is not really foreplay, but I wanted to include this anyway. Sexy lingerie and generally just trying to look good will not only make him feel you’re even hotter than before, but it will get YOU feeling that you’re even hotter than before.

* Take It Slow. One of the keys to good foreplay is not to rush things. It’s important to take your time and let the tension build up. Remember, the bigger the build-up, the bigger the release.

* Two Steps Forward, One Step Back. This is *GOLDEN*. You *have* to try this out for yourself. This is really the simplest and greatest “technique” I’ve found for building tension in your sex-life. What it’s about is best described using an example:

So if you want to give him head, you might start kissing his chest, moving down towards his stomach and then his groing. But then, instead of doing the “predictable” thing – continuing towards his cock, you stop and go back to his stomache. Do this several times in different ways and it will infuriate and exhilarate him beyond your wildest dreams.

Now I know that sometimes you just don’t have the time or even the energy to have a prolonged foreplay session. That’s all fine and well. But I would like to advise you that at least once in a while, you *make* the time.

Having really great sex once in a while, the type of sex that really releases all that pent up energy, both physical, mental and even spiritual can do wonders for your personal life. You’ll feel like a new person. In the next part of the series on how to give head we’re going to get a lot more “hands-on” and I’m going to give you a bunch of practical blowjob techniques.

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