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Quick *SUPER TIP* for Giving Great Head…

Written on June 21, 2010 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's, How to give head tips

Today I’m going to give you a quick tip that can really SUPER-CHARGE your performance in bed. It’s one of those tips that will make you feel really appreciated after you’ve used it, simply because he’s going to be SQUIRMING with pleasure. Don’t be surprised if he BEGS you not to stop!

So here’s the tip: After you’ve heated him up properly and you’ve already started giving him head, use your index finger and middle finger to find his PERINEUM. His perineum is a soft, fleshy part underneath his testicles, right between his ball sack and his anus.

Once you find it start massaging it FIRMLY while you keep giving him head. A fair warning: Don’t be surprised if this sends him completely OVER THE TOP… It’s ridiculously effective!

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A Blowjob At My Best Friends House

Written on May 28, 2010 by Patrick in How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's, How to give head tips

One of the best experiences I’ve had with a woman was a girl I used to date a while back. One of my friends had a party that I wanted to go to, so I brought her with me. The night proceeded excellently and we had a whole lot of fun.

As the night progressed, everyone at the party was starting to get a little tipsy, including me and my girlfriend. Suddenly, she grabbed my hand and lead me upstairs in the old villa where the party was held. She checked right and left and when she saw that no one was there, she pulled me into the bathroom.

There she went down on her knees, ripped up my belt and proceeded to give me the best blowjob I’ve ever had. Why was it so great? Here are something you can learn on how to give head from “Lucy”.

  • “Head” is a dish best served by surprise. Now, don’t get me wrong, giving head in the bed is also fantastic, but giving him a blowjob when he’s LEAST expecting it will feel that much more worth it. Just ask yourself, if your boyfriend bought you a diamond necklace for your birthday, that would be fantastic right? But if your boyfriend just bought you a diamond necklace on any random day, just because he loved you so much, wouldn’t that be that much more special?
  • Confidence is super attractive. Another thing that Lucy did 100% right is that she had the confidence and the courage to take the bull by the horn(s) (pun intended!). Some relationships have almost hardwired roles where one partner is the dominant one and the other is the submissive one. Those are good. But I have some news for you: the best relationships are NEVER hard wired. They always keep changing. Sometimes he seduces you, sometimes you seduce him. That’s how you keep things FRESH and EXCITING month after month.
  • She KNEW what she was doing. One of the best things about Lucy was that our communication about sex was so open. You know how hard it can feel to talk with someone your sleeping with about sex? Maybe it’s because you don’t want to seem like you don’t know, or maybe you don’t want to step on their toes, but whatever it is, it’s completely counter-productive. Me and Lucy had NONE of that. I taught her everything I knew and she too taught me a thing or two.

If you also want to learn how to give great head check out the guide on this blog, or even better, check out the Great Head Guide. You can thank me later!!

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How To Give Head Tip #2 The Tongue Extender

Written on May 26, 2010 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's, How to give head tips

It’s finally time for the second tip in our little series. Are you ready? Last time we talked about how you can tease him, a sort of foreplay tip that can up your game. Today’s “how to give head tip” is a full on blowjob technique that you can use next time you’re playing around with his penis.

Today’s tip is how you can use your tongue, one of the most flexible parts of the body, to send pleasure searing through each and every fiber of his body. How do you do it?

Start by doing your normal “start up routine”, if you have some foreplay or whatever, then do that at first. Then gradually start giving him head. Once you’re up to speed and you have his cock in your mouth, then you can use this technique.

While you’re holding his cock as deep as you can in your mouth/throat, open your mouth a tad more and extend your tongue. In a way, pretend like you are “pulling” his cock even further. This might sound like a pretty petite tip, but in fact the pleasure is double: for one, you’re giving him all sorts of extra stimulation in a part where you can’t reach with your mouth, but there’s also an added bonus to this whole deal:

When you extend your tongue in a fashion where you’re thinking about “pulling” his cock further into your mouth, you are actually going to be able to PUSH HIM FURTHER IN! It might sound strange, put when you imagine it in your head, suddenly the results will appear in real life. It’s almost like The Secret.

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How To Give Head Tip #1: Don’t Give Him Head

Written on May 24, 2010 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's, How to give head tips

I wanted to start off a new series on this blog where I give you a daily tip on how you can give great head to a guy. I’ll be adding new tips as we move a long and hopefully, soon you’ll be giving head like a pro!

So. The first tip I’m going to share with you today is a “teaser technique”, that is, it’s meant to heighten his anticipation to a level where he’ll almost beg you to suck him off.

The way I learned of this technique is actually that a girl actually did it to me! It was a girl I met a few years back. We had been seeing each other for a while then and things were going great. One morning, after she had spent the night at my place, she was heading to the office. As she was about to step out of the door, she knelt down on her knees, unbuttoned my pants and started giving me head, out of the blue.

Now, at first I wasn’t even considering sex because I had just woken up, but a few moments later, I was rock hard and all I wanted was her to keep doing what she was doing. So what happened?

She stopped giving me head, rose up and told me “I have to go to work now, have a nice day!”. I was perplexed! It was a quick turn, not thinking about sex at all to ONLY THINKING about sex. You bet I was already going when she came home that evening…

This tip is actually really easy. Whenever you feel like he’s enjoying it the most, stop. Tease him a little. He might not think he wants you to stop, but in the end he’s going to appreciate it that much more.

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How To Give Head Like You Mean It (Part II)

Written on May 20, 2010 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's

Yesterday I talked a little bit about why it’s so important NOT to do something if you can’t do it fully. Simply put, doing something with a negative or resisting energy (to put it in hippie-terminology!) taints everything it touches. That includes giving head!

So how do give head like you’re enjoying it? Easiest way and most consistent way, believe it or not, is to enjoy giving head.

“But Patrick, what if I don’t?”, I hear you moan.

We can fix that!

In the end, when you boil it down, enjoying something consists of three different parts, all which are in your control.

  1. Remove any thing that stops you from enjoying yourself. If your man has a smelly dick or way too much hair down there, tell him so. Most guys have no problem cleaning up down there if you make them realize it bothers you. Besides, they’re getting a big return on it!
  2. Bring everything you’ve got to the table. What we invest in, we enjoy. If you bring 100% of yourself to the table, if you invest a hundred percent of your attention in what you are doing, you are almost BOUND to enjoy yourself sooner or later. Once you really realize this, it can change your life.
  3. Focus on what you like about giving head. Don’t you love the way his cock fills your mouth? Or how exciting it is to be in total control of his most prized possession? Or how you can make him twist and turn and moan with a flick of your tongue? The last but definitely not least part of enjoying yourself is to start focusing on what you like about it rather than what you don’t like. If you focus on the negatives, then it becomes work. If you look at the positives, it becomes play.

In the next part of this series, I’m going to give you some more blowjob tips on how you can make giving head more fun for YOURSELF!

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