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Quick *SUPER TIP* for Giving Great Head…

Written on June 21, 2010 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's, How to give head tips

Today I’m going to give you a quick tip that can really SUPER-CHARGE your performance in bed. It’s one of those tips that will make you feel really appreciated after you’ve used it, simply because he’s going to be SQUIRMING with pleasure. Don’t be surprised if he BEGS you not to stop!

So here’s the tip: After you’ve heated him up properly and you’ve already started giving him head, use your index finger and middle finger to find his PERINEUM. His perineum is a soft, fleshy part underneath his testicles, right between his ball sack and his anus.

Once you find it start massaging it FIRMLY while you keep giving him head. A fair warning: Don’t be surprised if this sends him completely OVER THE TOP… It’s ridiculously effective!

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A Blowjob At My Best Friends House

Written on May 28, 2010 by Patrick in How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's, How to give head tips

One of the best experiences I’ve had with a woman was a girl I used to date a while back. One of my friends had a party that I wanted to go to, so I brought her with me. The night proceeded excellently and we had a whole lot of fun.

As the night progressed, everyone at the party was starting to get a little tipsy, including me and my girlfriend. Suddenly, she grabbed my hand and lead me upstairs in the old villa where the party was held. She checked right and left and when she saw that no one was there, she pulled me into the bathroom.

There she went down on her knees, ripped up my belt and proceeded to give me the best blowjob I’ve ever had. Why was it so great? Here are something you can learn on how to give head from “Lucy”.

  • “Head” is a dish best served by surprise. Now, don’t get me wrong, giving head in the bed is also fantastic, but giving him a blowjob when he’s LEAST expecting it will feel that much more worth it. Just ask yourself, if your boyfriend bought you a diamond necklace for your birthday, that would be fantastic right? But if your boyfriend just bought you a diamond necklace on any random day, just because he loved you so much, wouldn’t that be that much more special?
  • Confidence is super attractive. Another thing that Lucy did 100% right is that she had the confidence and the courage to take the bull by the horn(s) (pun intended!). Some relationships have almost hardwired roles where one partner is the dominant one and the other is the submissive one. Those are good. But I have some news for you: the best relationships are NEVER hard wired. They always keep changing. Sometimes he seduces you, sometimes you seduce him. That’s how you keep things FRESH and EXCITING month after month.
  • She KNEW what she was doing. One of the best things about Lucy was that our communication about sex was so open. You know how hard it can feel to talk with someone your sleeping with about sex? Maybe it’s because you don’t want to seem like you don’t know, or maybe you don’t want to step on their toes, but whatever it is, it’s completely counter-productive. Me and Lucy had NONE of that. I taught her everything I knew and she too taught me a thing or two.

If you also want to learn how to give great head check out the guide on this blog, or even better, check out the Great Head Guide. You can thank me later!!

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How To Give Head Tip #2 The Tongue Extender

Written on May 26, 2010 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's, How to give head tips

It’s finally time for the second tip in our little series. Are you ready? Last time we talked about how you can tease him, a sort of foreplay tip that can up your game. Today’s “how to give head tip” is a full on blowjob technique that you can use next time you’re playing around with his penis.

Today’s tip is how you can use your tongue, one of the most flexible parts of the body, to send pleasure searing through each and every fiber of his body. How do you do it?

Start by doing your normal “start up routine”, if you have some foreplay or whatever, then do that at first. Then gradually start giving him head. Once you’re up to speed and you have his cock in your mouth, then you can use this technique.

While you’re holding his cock as deep as you can in your mouth/throat, open your mouth a tad more and extend your tongue. In a way, pretend like you are “pulling” his cock even further. This might sound like a pretty petite tip, but in fact the pleasure is double: for one, you’re giving him all sorts of extra stimulation in a part where you can’t reach with your mouth, but there’s also an added bonus to this whole deal:

When you extend your tongue in a fashion where you’re thinking about “pulling” his cock further into your mouth, you are actually going to be able to PUSH HIM FURTHER IN! It might sound strange, put when you imagine it in your head, suddenly the results will appear in real life. It’s almost like The Secret.

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How To Give Head Tip #1: Don’t Give Him Head

Written on May 24, 2010 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's, How to give head tips

I wanted to start off a new series on this blog where I give you a daily tip on how you can give great head to a guy. I’ll be adding new tips as we move a long and hopefully, soon you’ll be giving head like a pro!

So. The first tip I’m going to share with you today is a “teaser technique”, that is, it’s meant to heighten his anticipation to a level where he’ll almost beg you to suck him off.

The way I learned of this technique is actually that a girl actually did it to me! It was a girl I met a few years back. We had been seeing each other for a while then and things were going great. One morning, after she had spent the night at my place, she was heading to the office. As she was about to step out of the door, she knelt down on her knees, unbuttoned my pants and started giving me head, out of the blue.

Now, at first I wasn’t even considering sex because I had just woken up, but a few moments later, I was rock hard and all I wanted was her to keep doing what she was doing. So what happened?

She stopped giving me head, rose up and told me “I have to go to work now, have a nice day!”. I was perplexed! It was a quick turn, not thinking about sex at all to ONLY THINKING about sex. You bet I was already going when she came home that evening…

This tip is actually really easy. Whenever you feel like he’s enjoying it the most, stop. Tease him a little. He might not think he wants you to stop, but in the end he’s going to appreciate it that much more.

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How To Give Head Like You Mean It (Part III)

Written on May 23, 2010 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's

How do you make giving head fun? Well, there are certain things you can focus on, some of which I’ve already mentioned in the “how to give head guide”.

How do you have fun, doing anything?

Really it all boils down to where your focus lies. If you are always focusing on the negatives, then your experience will be a bad one. But if you instead focus on the positives, your experience becomes much more fun.

When it comes to giving head, if you have a tendency to focus on the negatives you might be thinking “Oh, when is he ever going to finish…”  or “I hate doing this, I just want to get it over with” or “This is boring”.

If that sounds similar to you, then what you can do is, when you get aware of those thoughts, is to replace them with more positive thoughts “Man, I love feeling his cock inside me, wherever it is!” or “He tastes so good!” or “I love feeling in complete control over my man”.

As with everything you do in life, there are always at least two different ways to look at something, and depending on which perspective you choose, you ARE going to have a different experience. It’s as simple as that!

How Can I Make This Fun?

Here’s a little bonus for you. I wasn’t actually going to include this at first, but I think this little nugget is so awesome that I wanted to share it with you before I pack up for the day.

Questions control our focus. If you ask yourself “Why is this so boring?” your mind will automatically throw out a thousand answers to why giving head is so boring. But this can also work in your favor: If you ask yourself “How can I make this fun?” which is a super-power-packed-question; your brain will throw out a bunch of ideas for how you can make it fun for YOU!

Maybe it’s teasing him till he almost explodes and then stopping?

Maybe it’s whispering dirty things in his ear and getting him all rallied up?

Or maybe it’s commanding him to do things in order for you to continue?

It’s up to you; how can you make it fun?

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How to Give Head Like You Mean It (Part I)

Written on May 17, 2010 by Patrick in Exciting Blowjob Tips, How To Give Head, How To Give a BJ Do's

Snap. Okay, today I want to talk about something that is often overlooked but nonetheless incredibly important. Today we’re going to talk about how to give head like you want it.

Have you ever done something that you didn’t want to do?

Maybe it was your mom telling you that you have to clean your room.

Maybe it was your boss telling you that you have to finish a pile of work before you head home.

Maybe it was one of your friends that told you that you have to come to her party.

Suddenly, you feel a huge resistance to doing what they’ve requested. A knot forms in your stomach and while you might  get the ‘job’ done anyway, it has become just that: a job, and you won’t draw as much pleasure from it as you could have otherwise.

When talking about giving head, your boyfriend will most probably not tell you “you HAVE to give me a blowjob“, at least not out right. But you know that he really likes it and that he really wants it and even though you might not be thrilled to do it, you do it because you think he expects it.

By now you’re probably realizing the point I’m trying to make. Even though in this case he’s not telling you “you have to give me head”, in your head you are TELLING YOURSELF THAT YOU HAVE TO. And that is just as bad! You won’t be enjoying yourself, and that will show in how well you do!

So what’s the solution?

Really, you have three options.

First option is, you keep sucking him off without wanting to do it, which will definitely show. Worst option.

The second alternative is to stop. That’s right; stop. If you can’t at least let go of feeling like you “have to do it” then it’s actually better to stop than to keep giving him head, both for you and for him. Anything you do with a tainted energy will simply spread.

The third and best alternative, however, is to START ENJOYING YOURSELF.

How do you do it?

I’ll elaborate on that more tomorrow!

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